Is virginity worth saving until marriage?

Question

I ask this because I'm a 20-yr-old virgin & I have feelings for this guy I'm talking to now. It's funny because I have always wanted to wait until marriage but it seems like this guy is unlike me in my values (he seems a little like a "bad boy") but at the same time I don't want to be a conquest but I'd like to see how it all ends out?

It's funny because in my little experience w/ relationships (only 2) whenever the man requests it, I say no but the temptation remains & I think that I might yield to it or surrender to another's desire?

Is it worth saving until marriage? Many of my peers have already had s*x & I want to know what it feels like, am I losing my self-control?

Answer 1

No one can answer this question, but yourself. Just because your friends have done it, that's not a reason why you should and if this guy has true feelings for you...he SHOULD understand. Yes, it's very normal to be curious about s*x, but I think you should stick to your "conviction". I saved myself until marriage, and let me tell you there is NOTHING like giving yourself to the man that you truly LOVE (and not just lust). It's all up to you...don't let anyone pressure you or make you doubt your decision.

Answer 2

YES, especially if you're going marry the best guy you ever met.

Answer 3

I'll definitely want to know how s*x feels before i get married. cause once you get married and you find out that s@@t ain't good then it be harder to get out with all them paper works to fill out. Any ways that's just my opinion.

Answer 4

of course virginity is worth saving until marriage, but only you can decide if you should give it up. don't have s*x b/c you're curious, have it because you know its right. make sure you have no doubts about it, and be sure you have no regrets. you've kept it this long, be safe on who you give it to. hope this helps

Answer 5

absolutely yes. make sure this guy is the one. if he can hold and wait for marriage; i think that will make  a good husband for you. stand behind your beliefs and remind yourself why your like this. your a good person for holding out.  

Answer 6

im really over qualified to answer this. maybe, make sure you at least have chemistry, though.

Answer 7

dude dont trip just have fun but just remember its still a sin

Answer 8

It's worth only the value you place on it sweetie. If you saved it this long, consider whether or not this 'bad boy' is special enough to be worth you losing your virginity to him. I can't say whether it's worth saving for marriage, because I didn't, but I think it's worth saving for someone special who deserves you. Good Luck.

Answer 9

You've waited this long...why just give it away now?

Since you've waited this long why not stick with your original ideals and wait until youre married?

Answer 10

yes hold on to it.

us men find something so attractive about a virgin

more than looks. a sense of purity.

girls giving it up to easy is bringing down the morals in america.

yall have the control. take it. make us wait. like the old saying goes, why buy the cow if you already drank the milk

Answer 11

if you wanna do it then do it.

personally... i dont think its worth it.

Answer 12

Well I have to say.....yes although I've sorta all ready blow it...don't make the same mistake.....for my sake

Answer 13

No its not worth saving until marriage.

A man wants an experienced women in bed who knows what shes doing.

Answer 14

Serious Question:  What happens if you never get married?  Are you prepared to stay a virgin your entire life?

Answer 15

Yes.. it is definitely worth. Please go through the article @ http://www.iamnext.com/sexandlove/newsex...

Answer 16

yes it is worth saving. It's ok to want it just as long as you don't give in.

I am saving my self till marriage also.

Answer 17

There are still men who value a woman with morals, I assure you. Just be patient!

Answer 18

I always wanted to wait. But when i had the chance, I took it (even though I always told myself I never would if I was put on the spot). I regret it now.

Answer 19

I dont think you should have s*x with this guy, I think it should be someone you are in love with and loves you back, you dont have to be married, you'll end up like Jessica Simpson, married young, divorced young. Why? Cause she finally had s*x, realized it was good, realized she was hot, and wanted to see what other guys were like, then you cheat or have this even worse desire and curiosity about other guys and you will fight with your husband.

Just wait for the right guy tho, not the bad boy.

Answer 20

yes!!!!!!!!!! lose it or it will fall off.( lose it lose it) be a w***e, practice makes perfect.

Answer 21

no, no , no. if you dont have s*x before marriage both of you will be inexperienced and the s*x wint be that good. you should be at the good stage by the age you get married and it wil be like two inexperienced 16 year olds. i cant see why anyone would want to do that.

Answer 22

I think it is good to wait; and its worth it (so ive heard). So, I think you should wait; its up to you!

Answer 23

well if your ready and your relationship is strong then yes.

but if you don't want to it is a bit embarrassing to wait till your like 25  

Answer 24

sweetheart, i was there too, dating a bad boy, and i ended up compromising my values. if you love him and think you're ready, do it. but if not, then wait, you have the rest of your life

Answer 25

Save it, that is the best gift you can give to your husband. If you don't you will regret it, I promise. You have waited this long, just hang in there. If he is worth sleeping with, then you are worth waiting for. Period.

Answer 26

Save it end of story.

Answer 27

YES.

And don't listen to liberals who tell you otherwise. Really, IT SHOULD BE MEN setting this standard, but fat chance you'll find one. Most are like dogs waiting for their dinner.

Please read:

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article...

Answer 28

YES

want for your husband after you are married

Answer 29

I think that the decision is really up to you. I am a fellow Christian and my original plan was to wait until I was married. My plan changed due to a few factors. One of them was that I am truly in love with my partner. At first I was going to wait then, when he asked me to marry him, a few weeks later actually, I was swayed by natural desire and temptation. I am happy that I made this decision. I would save your virginity until you are really in love with someone. Then, it is completely worth it.  

Answer 30

I would like to think so and may I say we really are living parallel lives. I am nineteen, nearly twenty, going into my third year in college, I am a submissive woman who loves to be spanked, have only had two boyfriends also, always have refused them pleasure, brought up a Christian!!How crazy is that really?

I would like to think it is worth saving but maybe only with a virgin boy. he ideal is that this one act will cement your bond and you will not have received it anywhere else so it becomes a sacred rite between you. I do not much like the idea of a virgin boy though!

Answer 31

it depends on what you believe in, like if you believe it's worth saving until marriage wait, and if you wanna get your freak on then go for it. do what you think is best.

                                                             your bubbalicious sista,

                                                                                        Bubbles