Is watching p**n Wrong? Explain Your Answer.?

Question

So, why is p**n wrong? why is p**n not wrong? Any other comments about p**n?

Yes, I watch p**n and I'm a girl. I just want to know if it's wrong or not.

Answer 1

no it keeps things interesting. Would you like to do the same thing the same way everyday?

Answer 2

when I was very young, they used to scramble the playboy channel on our TV. I used to try and watch out of curiosity when nobody was around.

Although fascinating, it made me kind of nauseous. Like seeing a bad traffic accident. You've got to look, but it would be better if you didn't.

And it has colored the way I think about s*x now which is not very highly.

Answer 3

It is not wrong. It is perfectly natural. You will not go to h**l. You will not get in trouble. You will not have psychological or physiological problems. Its perfectly natural. Married couples watch p**n. Even before s*x its healthy to watch p**n.

Answer 4

Apparently, the real problem is that we're trying to play both ends against the middle. On one end, we're outraged at child prostitution, child pornography, rape, and mass s*x murders. On the other end, we wink at adultery and fornication, watching p**n   and abortion. It's a bizarre line we want to draw: "On this side promiscuity is a crime—on that side it's all right." But how can we be so sure where to draw the line?

Answer 5

Watching p**n CAN be wrong, but it is not INTRINSICALLY wrong.

If watching p**n warps your attitudes toward s*x in a negative way, if your desire to watch it interferes with your ability to live a normal life, if it alienates those who you prefer not to alienate, if it encourages or causes the commission of illegal or immoral acts, or any of a number of other things, then it is probably wrong for YOU.

You might note, however, that the same could be said for reading books, riding a bicycle, or any activity.

The above distinctions are also a very personal thing.  Some people cannot see violent movies because it is very upsetting to them... but that doesn't make it wrong for someone who isn't upset by them.  Some people can't eat spicy food because it makes them ill... but that doesn't mean that people who aren't made ill shouldn't eat spicy food because of it.

You are an adult.  As an adult is it your responsibility to protect yourself.  Sometimes even FROM yourself.  Nobody else is likely to know enough about you or have enough control over you to do it so well.  So if p**n is bad for you, stay away from it.  If not, engage in it as much as you wish.  It's really that easy.

Answer 6

No, watching p**n is NOT wrong.

As long as it ISN'T anything illegal (such as child pornography,beastiality, necrophilia, or ACTUAL rape) then it's not horrible.

Just steer clear of illegal stuff (it could get you in a lot of trouble or get you locked up).

Hope this helps! =D

Answer 7

You may be a visual learner.

As a genre, p**n per se is faked, distorted, etc.

It appeals to some whose endorphin habituation has developed due to a lack of championing of their inner sense, inner child.

So, basically, it is wrong for these reasons:

It introduces virtual images and distorted (not based on romantic and caring) behavior.  These images, combined with sexual arousal, will tend to last for months or longer.  This imagery obscures real life caring.

Would suggest you call 1-800-525-LOVE http://www.klove.com 24-7 for free, licensed counseling.  Tell your story, let them help.

Also, if you're depressed or with low energy, nature walks and/or exercise help.  Masturbating when viewing p**n is a step downward, in terms of further encouraging endorphin habituation, which without self-championing of inner child, becomes addictive.

Answer 8

no

Answer 9

Watching p**n can't be right or wrong. I mean it is pleasurable to have s*x. So you don't know what you're talking about when you ask it's right or wrong.

Answer 10

...NO!!!...

...ITS ENTERTAINMENT...

...what is wrong is in the mind...

...THANK YOU...

Answer 11

I wonder at the need?...

personally I think is demeaning to women...

each to their own I guess...

Answer 12

It really depends on the effects of p**n.

First, let's take for granted that by watching p**n you are increasing the demand for p**n and therefore encouraging its production. This is true no matter whether p**n is wrong or not.

If p**n does increase sexual aggression and the likelihood of rape, sexual harassment and other undesirable behaviors (as some critics have claimed) then watching it will allow more people to view it over a longer period of time.

This will increase the number of people inclined towards sexual aggression.

If, on the other hand, p**n only (at most!) gives ideas to people who were inclined towards these behaviours to start with then no problem.

It also depends on who is being exploited, manipulated or dehumanised.

If p**n dehumanises the women performing in it, or even women who have nothing to do with it p**n would be wrong. This is very much tied into the first point.

If it merely manipulates people who fancy a quick **** into paying a few quid for some stimulating material to enjoy then  this is fine.

I think that most of the arguments which claim that p**n is wrong also claim that p**n is much more than it really is.

In order to be wrong p**n would have to enter the consciousness of its viewers and performers and change it somehow on a medium to long term basis. If this were the case then the points about it being dehumanising and likely to increase sexual aggression would be valid.

However, I think that it is far more likely to enter your consciousness only temporarily, during the act of masturbation, and leave as soon as you have finished. This would do no harm whatsoever.

I think that the only people who are effected by it in a negative way are people who have some form of mental illness prior to watching it. These people would have had problems anyway.

The same points could be made about horror films and general violence.

So, no p**n is not wrong.

Answer 13

Of coarse p**n isn't wrong.  I made the mistake of pointing this out in church once and well, let's just say that they didn't quite agree...

Answer 14

p**n is wrong. It is demeaning, corrupts human attitudes toward s*x and makes a golden calf out of s*x. p**n usually treats humans like objects for the twisted pleasure of others. p**n results in men having grave disrespect for women.

Answer 15

A person's attitude towards s*x determines if p**n is right or wrong.