Is what I'm doing illegal?

Question

O.K now please try not to judge me because you don't know me. Basically I'm 19 and am quite sexually promiscuous and I have made a lot of money by sleeping with guys,pretending I can't get an abortion on the NHS and then asking them for the money it cost me to have the "private abortion". Now to be fair it is these guys own fault for sleeping with me unprotected even if they did presume I was on the pill like some of them did. I have become an expert at faking marie stopes receipts for "proof" of having had an abortion but many men don't even bother to ask for proof. Now I'm getting worried. I'm not a criminal and never will be. So am wandering. I know what I'm doing is evil,immoral,dishonest and some would say even manipulative but is it actually illegal? Thanks x

Answer 1

well its kind of conning them out of money but i dont think its actually illegal. pretty scummy tho.  

Answer 2

Fraud and deception are illegal, if one of your 'clients' can prove you are doing what you're doing. you could be prosecuted, though this is extremely unlikely. I offer these comments in an open, non-judgemental way. It's a matter for your conscience, and yours alone. Be careful though. M.

Answer 3

well your disillusioned if you think your not a criminal, not to mention, wow-to even be this way.

yes, you are committing FRAUD.  you could not only be put in jail, but sued in civil court from one of your Victums and have your future earnigs attached for who knows how long.

How you could even think this was right?  Im appalled.  I sure hope you wake up and become a good person.  You reap what you sew, and you will not enjoy your payback.

Answer 4

Come on, this is a wind up.

Still, I'll pretend it's genuine and give an honest answer-what you're doing is worse than prostitution. At least with brass, it's an upfront transaction. I'm sure s*x workers would look down on you.

Watch out for karma-you deserve a big, nasty STD. That's if you haven't already got one, which is likely.

Have a wonderful day.

Answer 5

Yes it is illegal.. it's called extortion and fraud. You could have one of these men-who should be ashamed of themselves-demand proof of your pregancy. And in some states it is illegal to have s*x with the intent to become pregant.

Answer 6

you are digging your own grave and waiting for them to bury you underground. you may not be lucky for each time when you doing the same trick. even if you are lucky enough, you will never have your clear conscience in the rest of your life.

no one will judge you but only GOD will...

Answer 7

You are a prostitute.  Even if this is all theoretical and your imagination is wild, you need therapy.  Maybe a labotomy, and at least some high powered anti psychotic meds.  I'd like to party with you though. I got some beers!!! You wanna drink' em???

Answer 8

First you are a prostitute and second you take money from them to get fake abortions, and finally you forge receipts from a clinic to prove you had abortions. Yeah you are doing things that are illegal.

Answer 9

What if one day a guy wants you to keep the baby, then he'll know you lied.  What you are doing is wrong in soooo many ways, First guys freak out when they let a girl pregnant, second they will think they killed their own child by paying money, and of course you put them in a situation that is extremely uncomfortable.  

Answer 10

It IS illegal. Its called fraud. You are asking someone for money based on a procedure that you know you are not going to have. Because you are telling false stories to hoax people into getting money, it's fraud. They might be sleeping with you without protection, but you are cheating them out of their money. You can go to prison for this and you can get a hefty fine.

Answer 11

you might aswell be a prostitute,you're still sleeping around for cash.i'm not having ago but maybe when you're older you'll look back and cringe.

Answer 12

Your'e morally banckrupt, one day you'll pick the wrong victim and end up tied to a bed and having your eyelids cut off, so you have to watch the rest of your body being mulitated, and noboddy in living memory has ever died from their injuries, it's always a heart attack, enjoy it while it lasts.

Answer 13

I can judge you by your admitted actions. From what little I know you are dishonest, an extortionist, and a felon. In other words you are a bad person.

To sleep with people to make money, is to be a hooker but you are actually worse. At least when they pay a hooker both parties are ok with the situation.

your name ? "wanda shea"

Answer 14

It takes a whole different kind of person to do what your doing but being a s**t takes a different kind of person too. Why don't ya just sell it and get money that way>  And u better watch... what comes around goes around  and every dog has its day and u will get yours eventually cause everyone does have their day and your day is gonna be a bad one...without a doubt

Answer 15

Just read this and I am absolutely horrified that anybody could do such a vile thing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... People like you should be locked up and the key thrown away. You nasty little witch. BTW wot goes around comes around!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 16

not only is it wrong, but yea, could be considered illigal because you are basically asking for money for s*x, even though it is after the fact, and you are lying, and how many std's do you think you have from all of this unprotected s*x?  I am glad you feel like you are doing something wrong, even though it is from a legal standpoint not a moral one, but I would say that you are a prostitute.  you are selling yourself for money.  just not up front.  how do you sleep at night?  oh, wait, you don't do you.....

Answer 17

Ergh...what a complete tramp you are. Yes it is illegal and I hope you get caught. This is truly disgusting and morally wrong. You make me feel sick.

Answer 18

You're "wandering", all right.

Yes, swindling is illegal.  With the kind of fraud you're committing, you should be more concerned one of your hits doesn't figure you out & come after you.

How dangerous you're behaving.

All this instead of cultivating your own, legal, jobs & career?

Shame on ya.

Answer 19

It depends on how high your morals are, it's obviously dishonest-and completely illegal only in the matter that you're forging fake receipts from wherever you got the "abortion" done. i'll give you credit though, although it's awful-that's a good idea!  

Answer 20

uhmm, if they pay you to have s*x with you then yes it's prostitution

but if you just tell them you need money for abortions its an extremely grimy thing to do but i don't think it is illegal to... lie.

Answer 21

i don't think it's illegal.

but like you already said, it is immoral & dishonest.

Answer 22

Lieing to people for money?  Illegal? No, those people are just stupid for believing you.  However, the law has nothing to do with what will happen when you die....

Answer 23

What you are doing is called fraud and is illegal.  It is also very bad Karma.  Remember if you put bad Karma out it is sure to back at you one day and bite you in the butt (or possibly end you up in jail, if you pick the wrong guy to mess with).

Answer 24

What you are doing is called extortion and yes, it is illegal (along with very immoral).  It could also be labeled as blackmail, not to mention forgery when you fake the "proof"

Answer 25

yes its fraud, extortion and deception as well as forgery so yes it very illegal and carry on as your are not only will you have the police knocking on the door wanting to lock you up for some time but several people wanting to beat the **** out of you too for what the would see as an evil act at trying to wreck their lives and ruin them some of these guys gave you that money out of fear and probably ended up in debt you are a heartless crawl woman  

Answer 26

WOW so far u have 64 answers and if you include mine 65!! Gotta be a record.

I don't judge but what u are doing is illegal mate, its basically fraud, not prostitution as other people said.

You are gonna get an std hun, stop now, take care xx

Answer 27

well you are conning money out of people...

but i say they have it coming.

i think if men are that stupid to fall for it then keep doing it.

you're going to get alot of c**p from people on here because of it - but if its giving you money i say go for it.

but please get some qualifications and a good steady job

best wishes

x

Answer 28

Yeh its extortion and touches upon blackmail.

As what you're doing is probably illegal why not prostitute yourself, its the same thing (sleeping with guys for the intention of payment) and you can get more money.

Answer 29

Yes, it is illegal, it's called prostitution. Congratulations, you are technically a prostitute.

And you admitting to it is your proof.

Answer 30

Yes its actually illegal.

Its fraud. And forgery.

Your over 18 its definitely a felony, if you do get caught you will go to jail.

Answer 31

To extort money based on a lie is a confidence game. Why do you feel safe having unprotected s*x. Forget aids, you will have herpes and HPV in no time, 1 in 10 partners can give it to you. If you like using s*x for money be a prostitute somewhere it is legal and then you won't have to be criminal