Is what She did Cheating?

Question

My girlfriend recently told me that she had phone s*x with another man while we were together. The guy she did it with happens to be her best friend for 10 years. She swears she would never have s*x with another man other than me, but i was wondering if what she did would fall under cheating? I told her i would like it if she didn't do it ever again and she said she couldn't promise me it wouldn't.

Answer 1

She knows it was wrong, thats a really intimate thing to have done, bro.   And why would she do that, theres no reason for that

but shes kinky and thats awesome

Answer 2

DANG THATS A HARD ONE.... BUT UR LUCKY ITS JUST OVER THE PHONE AND SHES REALLY NOT HAVING s*x, THAT WOULD OF BEEN WORST.. BUT I WOULDNT CALL IT CHEATING  

Answer 3

Cheating is not just a physical act. You can cheat with your body but you can also cheat with your mind and your heart. YES she cheated. Why would she do that to you? If it were something she wanted to try if she really loved you she would have sent you a s**y text to maybe get it started or just call you up and ease into it if she didn't know how you would feel. But yes she most definitely cheated and if she is starting this way it wont be long before she physically cheats.You really need to talk it out with her and get to the underlying problem before it becomes much bigger and then evaluate your relationship. Best of luck.     If she feels she did nothing wrong then she is definatly wrong and it sounds like she doesnt have much emotions tied into the relationship and she doesnt hold much vaue for your feelings.

Answer 4

if it makes you uncomfortable and she doesn't care, she doesn't love you enough

what she did is a form of cheating and unacceptable

if she can't see that, she is a selfish, self centered women and you deserve better

Answer 5

well as she told u she have phone s*x with this man so she didn't cheat on u Cause cheating mean that u discover it yourself but as it is not cheat i have to tell u that she don't love you that much as she tell u she cant promise you to not do it again that mean she miss something in you or you are just a person she like to be with no more no less