Is what he's telling me the truth?

Question

I have been seeing a guy for a little over a year now to me it is nothing serious I do have a little bit of feelings for him but it is for the wrong reasons all we do is have s*x nothing else when we talk on the phone or see each other it is only about s*x. Thinking about him just makes me want to do it. we have nothing in common he is 15 years older than me and really good in bed. he knows I will give it up to him regardless .... so why does he keep telling me he loves me and wants me to himself when the only thing he wants to talk to me about is s*x.

we often do the do in his car. when he comes and pick me up I just get into the back seat of his car so we can get things started faster. so I did not see him in a couple of weeks and when he came by I got in the front seat he asked me why did I do that I told him I wanted to talk and he gave me this weird look and asked me what was wrong with me really sarcastically . so I told him forget it and got out and went to the back. I need to know what you think should I cool things off with him cause obviously this is not a healthy relationship

Answer 1

Jesus Effin Christ !  Close your effin legs and dump the dude.  You've answered your own question, "we don't have anything in common..." It's that simple.  A relationship can't last when the foundation is just boinking each other.  You guys have to have trust, communication, some common aspects or your personalities that compliment each other.

Unless, all you're really looking for is to f*ck, then by all means go for it.  But don't post a question asking for advice on love when all your partner wants to do is f*ck.  You know what you want and you know what to do--- maybe you just need a little reassurance because you're doubting yourself?  There's another hint for you-- doubt.  Doubt is never a good thing.

Answer 2

Are you telling yourself the truth? What do you want from this? Have you all talked about this at all. Well if s*x is all you want then that's what you are getting. But if you are wanting more, you need to talk to him.

Answer 3

Scarface put it best in the song Quickie when he said I AIN'T DOWN 4 A LOVE AFFAIR I JUST WANNA F*** U know what to do & that's get yo a** in the back seat. LMAO. U already stated the facts, the relationship is nothing serious, u have nothing in common, HE KNOWS THAT YOU'LL GIVE IT UP REGARDLESS, & it's an unhealthy relationship. With that said, I'm not even gonna answer this question, so if they take my 2 points away, in the words of Biggie, IZ ALL GOOD BABY BAAAABY.  

Answer 4

Just dump him.

Answer 5

Dear God, girl, have some self respect!  

Answer 6

Talk to him, it seems that he uses you.

Talk to him, stop having s*x for a while, tell him you want to hang out and have fun without s*x, and get to know him better.

See his reaction and if it's  bad leave. You don't need to be used. There is much more to a relationship than s*x (even though the s*x is great indeed :))

Answer 7

Are you kidding me??? Why don't you just put a price tag on your DUTY that your doing and start charging him? Really come on??? Your giving him just what he wants. JUST s*x!!!! Why would you expect anything else in return?? If your going to lay down with dogs, then expect to wake up with some fleas. Come on>>>I don't know how you could expect anything else in return???? Really take a good look at what your doing and how your living your life. You get what you put out. Stop acting like your not worth anything. Because thats the impression your giving to him and others. Your worth more then that aren't you?? If you don't think you are, then your in really big trouble with being happy in life. GET UP OFF YOUR BACK>>>