Isn't my 7 year old too young to already be experimenting with his body?

Question

Yesturday i caught him in his room, under his covers with his clothes off!!! I am worried about it, should i be, my hubby thinks i am being silly about it, but he is only 7? Ins't he too young or it is natural at that age!!! Should we talked to him abou t*t or leave it alone!! Thanks!!

Answer 1

funny thing is i just went through a class for this last year.  Yes it is natural.  What ever happens, don't tell him its bad or he shouldn't do it.  If he does it in the living room, just tell him nicely that that is something for him to do in a private place like his room.  Don't get upset, it is a fact in life.  Trust me, i was just as blown away as you.

Answer 2

I am surprised you ahvent 'caught' him sooner. Boys and girls explore their bodies at toddlerhood.  And you''ve taught him good he was in private!

Answer 3

It's his body.  If he's doing it, then it must be time!  Talk to him, but don't embarrass him.  Answer his questions honestly, but don't overload him.

Answer 4

its not too young even though we want it to be.  they are growing up faster today thenwhen we were younger.  mine do it also.  the thing to do is to talk to him about it and let him know that although it is normal for him do this, there is a time and place for it. like in his room under the covers and not in front of other people.

Answer 5

Humans are sexual beings from birth. I would say this is normal behavior for a 7 year old, boy or girl. I would only be worried if he talked about or demonstrated any behaviors that would not seem to naturally occur to him in terms of what is pleasurable--being naked under the covers seems pretty natural in terms of pleasant physical sensation to me. The unnatural things would be an indication of someone older maybe experimenting with his body, if you know what I mean. Doesn't sound like that's the case here. Follow your husband's lead on this, and don't shame him about his natural curiousity, or his future s/o will have to undo his acquired shame and prudery to enjoy their private life together! The best you can do, the most you would want to do, is make sure the exploration is done privately (appropriate time/place).

Answer 6

7 is just about the right age! By then, kids know what their genitals are and are interested in them. I wouldn't be worried unless he is showing overt sexuality (such as performing anal s*x with toys- sorry if it's TMI), as that can be a sign of sexual abuse.

Answer 7

umm i sleep naked its not like he was masterbating um plus his nerve endings arent ready for intercourse so it wouldnt matter and he doesnt feel it

Answer 8

Of course its natural,I dont understand why you are asking.

Does your husband think your question is absurd also?

Infants "explore" themselves

Answer 9

Men like to play with his weenie since they are babies LOL. Maybe your husband could talk to him about it. But I wouldn't worry. Good luck

Answer 10

Hi there

its totally normal to experiment, my nephew is also 7 and he looks/touches his p***s too my sister caught him doing it and felt the same as you, there just curious..theres nothing to be worried about and i sont think you need to have a talk to him unless he was emabarassed when you caught him, he shouldnt be ashamed for being curious..

Answer 11

Don't worry, all little kids do that. My 3 yr/o cousin enjoys running around naked before bath time!

I think it's just a way for them to get more in touch with themselves. Like when they were little and stuck toes in their mouths. That was, too.

I wouldn't freak out, but if you're seriously concerned, ask your husband to talk with him.

Answer 12

Oh my gosh, it's totally normal.  I bet he has been doing it longer than you know.  It's no big deal.... all boys do it when they find their p***s.  He's just checkin out his body, trying to figure out what is going on.  You could have a little talk with him about it if you want, but if he's doing it in private, then there isn't much to talk about and you might just embarass him... it's your call.  I would probably just let it go for now and see what happens.