Isn't this a little immature?

Question

My step dad and I get in fights a lot, we don't along all the time.

When these fights occur, it will be hours later and he still wont be over it. Sometimes, even the day after, he'll use someone thing I said against me.

Well we got in an argument this morning. He is often in charge of dinner, so tonight he makes dinner and doesn't even tell me about it! Then throws away extras! This isn't the first time either. Another time, 3 hours after an insignificant argument he ordered pizza and got mushroom and olive pizza (the only toppings I don't like BTW). He claims to have forgotten and didn't think about it, but its seems rather convenient that this happens every time he's mad at me.

What should I do about this? It's getting REALLY irritating.

Answer 1

Talk to your mum about it

Answer 2

I believe the modern terminology is 'passive aggressive'

However, as you have stated, you enjoy the little problems. Maybe you own that part, not to use it against you :)

Answer 3

Its really simple - payback :]

When he's in the shower, 'accidentally' flush the toilet. And one more time, just for the h**l of it.

Spend ages in the bathroom.

When he needs to go to the toilet, make sure theres no toilet paper!

When he's not looking, put something in his coffee or tea - just to be safe, make sure its not something he'll choke on! Me and my sister put cotton balls in eachothers drinks, but its not very smart cause if I was to choke on it, it'd probably suffocate me...and i'd DIE. :\

Try something like one single rasin :]

Put something in his bed. But UNDER his sheet, so ge still lies on it but cant see it. Try a snail (this can be messy so you could get in big trouble)

When he's baking somethingi n the oven, go up to in and secretly turn off the gas. He'll come back and realise the ovens off but he wont know when it turned off. Completely deny it if he confronts you.

Be careful cause he can easily get you back for these in the same way. When you have a shower, expect the water to go hot and cold!

Good luck!

P.s. You're allowed to do this cause you're young. He's an oldie :]

Xx

Answer 4

That IS really immature and irritating. He's a grown man for crying out loud. I suggest that you just talk to him about it when you two are getting along. He might just have always had that problem, and you'll have to deal with it. At least talk to him about and see what he says. Maybe he was the youngest in his family, so he never got his way and now he's taking advantage. Or maybe he was the oldest and never grew out of it... or maybe he's just like that haha. Either way, bring it to his attention (in a mature way) and hope that he tries to work on it. I wish there was more I could offer... hopefully you'll get some helpful answers!