Issues with me &baby daddy?

Question

I have a 15mnth old daughter &am now 25wks with our #2nd.

When me and ______[ex] concieved Miah our daughter we wer a couple, but shortly before her birth we mutually broke up.

When she was born and until aboutt 6mnths ago we had some issues. I needed to be a stay at home mom with her, but he couldnt ust give us all the money.

But that was finally sorted out, &things got intimate - only once.

We concieved our next child then.

Obviously he knows im pregnant again, lol

but he hasnt had much of a reaction, we have a really awkward relationship now.

I dream about him every night, &sometimes when we hug goodbye when he has been over to see Miah, we embrace for a long time &sometimes he will just go to kiss me.

When i ask him about it sort of he says we shouldnt be a couple, we are in a love hate relationship, blah blah.

But im sick of being at this alone!

We arent a couple, but we are almost more than friends - but he wont admit it?

Whats going on?

Thanks x

Answer 1

i have no idea im just a kid lady

Answer 2

of course you have feelings for a guy you have 2 children with, thats normal.  but that does not mean it is a healthy and wise choice for a relationship.  if he does not want to be with you anymore then you need to not delude urself into believeing otherwise.  its time for you to acknowledge the fact that you guys are not going to be together and move on from there.

Answer 3

just tell him how you feel. we have no idea why you broke up and what the issues were. maybe you are better off friends. tell him you love him still and want to try once more.