It's a major guy emergency!!! Please help!!!?

Question

Hello there! Ok, ladies, (and any guys if you read this,) i need some SERIOUS help!!!

Ok so here's whats up! There is this guy who is my guy-friend that I have been liking for a LONG time! We've called each other off and on, and he asked me to the dance once. We also say hi in the halls a lot. But here's the thing... I don't know if he likes me or not!!!

Is there any signs that can help me tell if he likes me or not? Should I tell him and risk ruining our friendship for good, or do I not tell him? Please!!! I need answers!!! I have talked to some of my girlfriends, my mo and even read Seventeed magazine to find out advice!!!

Please, you have no idea, I really like this guy, and we're a lot alike, but by telling him, I do not want to risk ruining our friendship!!!

Answer 1

Just tell him.  I know this is easier said than done, but why dance around it if it's making you crazy?  All you have to do is sit him down and tell him you don't want to damage your friendship but you have had something on your mind lately (don't tell him it's been A LONG TIME until you find out how he feels).  Just lay it out there.  If he is a true friend and doesn't have the same feelings, he won't let the friendship fade.  

Also, if he doesn't share your feelings, do not treat him any differently after you tell him.  If you want him to be honest with you in the future, acting hurt will damage the relationship and he'll be less likely to being open.

Either way, good luck and you can do it girl!  Keep your chin up.

Answer 2

Spend some more time with him and see how things pan out.

You can't force things to happen. They happen naturally (:

Answer 3

Okay Sweetie. If you guys have a good friendship with one another then I wouldnt want to ruin it but on the other hand if you have an amazing relationship then you shoulnt have to worry bout anything! If Your willing to wish your relationship together then id say go for it. And for the liking you or not subject. I'd go to his friends and ask him if hes talks about you, if your all he ever talks about then thats a really good sign! It's prettty much about common sense and whats in your heart hun!

If you need anymore advice then e-mail me im really good with these kind of things!

Good Luck:)

Hope It Works<3