It's about my son! I need help!?

Question

Last night I caught my youngest son watching p**n in his laptop! He was masturbating seeing older women's pictures! He never got to know that I saw him! What do I do?

Answer 1

Its a bit of a difficult question... the real problem is the p**n on the laptop, you cant let him get into that, it will very likley develop into a problem, worst case, an addiction, and depending how old he is, a very costly one at that.

Masturbation is normal, and I dont think you should confront him about that. Best way to bring this all up is just say you found history logs on the laptop or something like that. I also suggest you let the father discuss this as your son may be more open to him.

Answer 2

Have his father talk to him about it if he's around.  It'll be a lot less embarrassing than having your mom talk to you about it.  I would hope that any and all women he sees having s*x are older women.  Maybe that's all he had access to.  I'm sure he's not staring at their faces anyway.  Take his laptop away and teach him that this isn't right...How young is young anyway???

Answer 3

You should confront him on the laptop issue, but not maturbating.  It's normal for kids to do that and it could cause serious issues if he found out you saw him.  What you could do though is tell him that the p**n he's watching came up on parental controls and you're taking the laptop.  Let him know that all that stuff could be loaded with viruses and he's too young to be watching adult content.  I'd ground him for the p**n.......just make sure you leave out the "personal" stuff.

Answer 4

WOW hold is your son?

I would have his father talk to him about this topic just because he may not want to talk to his mom about it.

In the meantime I would go to his laptop when he isn't home and put some restrictions on it as far as what sites he can go to. Put locks on the X rated sites.

Good Luck

Answer 5

Confront him, take away his laptop and limit his freedom.

Answer 6

Tell him being sexually aroused is normal.  How we choose to deal with it is our choice.  For example, masturbation is normal and a good choice.  However, choosing to watch p**n is a cheap thrill and something to learn to have self-control over.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Masturbation is normal and, frankly, in this day and age p**n is pretty much normal too.  If he is a youngster living at home ALL the women he sees in p**n are going to be older than he is - I wouldn't worry about that at all.  If he was watching something really freaky (goat s*x or whatever) I would worry.  :)

If you are concerned because p**n and/or masturbation goes against your religious or spiritual beliefs, you are kinda on your own there.  Children do not always follow their parents.  Good luck and take care :)