now, it's like i can't even ask her for the hairdrier without her blowing up in my face!Like today, i walked my dog to the vet's office today to get a shot. (that's about..1.4 miles.) and i walked back too. I gave my mom the paper-work when she got home, and she threw it on the ground! Minor, i know, but still, it's stuff like that ALL the time!! i'm afraid to ask her for help when i need it, 'cause last time i did, she ended up making me feel sooo bad for asking, that she didn't think it was important that i couldn't stand up bacause my head hurt that badly. And then my brother comes along with a paper cut, and she gets out the anti-bacterial creme, and 3 different types of band-aids!! we used to be friends almost, and now we're on different worlds. I'm soo mixed up on how to feel, or what to do. should i try to be more flexible, should i ignore her, or will she have to make the first move? soo confused!!!! I told my therapist this, she talked to my mom, then told me that she didn't know what i was talking about, because my mom was the nicest person ever. I'm just sick of this feeling, and she does this to my other brother too, well, at a lower degree, but he's told me "mommy doesn't like me anymore". Other days she'll be the perfect mom and take us to the movies, or the beach and stuff like that. My dad notices it and tries to talk to her, but it only leads to a fight. please let me know what i should do. sorry this was long, but thanks for reading, and hopefully answering. :)
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