It has been two days since I had s*x and I'm still sore?

Question

OK so... I lost my virginity two days ago and I'm still sore. My thighs ache so bad and my uhh, down there; lol. My back is aching a bit, but not much. So, I wasn't sore "down there" until recently (like an hour ago), but my thighs have been sore since I woke up yesterday. Besides never having s*x before, could it also be how we did it? I can admit that it got rougher and erm.. really fast (lol, this is so embarrassing for me). So... give me tips on how to feel better! IDK @_@ eek. lol

And should I tell him that I'm very sore or something?

Answer 1

how would i know! but uhm, ive never experienced it, but it would be sore wouldnt it? i mean h**l if its your first time, and you did it rough and fast and such then yes it should be sore. and if youd like, tell him, but thats not going to do anything different. its also possibly uhm his size, if he was..not small... then that would have an affect too

lol  

Answer 2

not being used to this kind of activity and overdoing it DOES ache.

Spreading legs like this, you do it often? I guess not for fun AND back pains can be ferquent depending no movements and the way you move.

but tell him to be gentle, and if it persists, try switching positions or the likes when you feel some ache.

Just like riding a bike can hurt after a day for not being used to sitting on it :)

Answer 3

PLEASE tell him your sore and to be soft and gentle for at least three weeks, girls can bruise and actually rip in the first month of losing virginity or the month of having s*x with a new partner. For now you really can't do much to feel better but maybe take one asprin a day around 9 am.