It hurts when my boyfriend fingers me..?

Question

Please don't answer if you're going to be immature. I'm a virgin and my boyfriend and I have done this many times before but it just started hurting recently when he hits my cervix. No, it is not a fingernail problem haha. Is this normal? It never used to hurt. Also, sometimes i have to make him stop because of the pain but if we get at it again it won't hurt anymore. Help please???

Answer 1

it's good to take things slow. tell him what you like and don't like. say something like do it more softly, slowly, not so deep. it should be fun for both of you, so always say what you want and don't want.  

Answer 2

I personally don't like the feeling, I don't let my boyfriend do it.  But if it hurts you then don't do it.

Answer 3

He is being too rough, you should just do it yourself and let himself get off while watching you. Nobody knows your body better than you. ;)

Answer 4

I'm a virgin too, and my boyfriend fingers me, and the weird thing is sometimes it hurts and sometimes it doesn't. I find that when I'm tense and not relaxed is when it hurts...could be for you, too. One time he went deeper than before and it hurt badly for a few seconds and then felt fine, and then I bled afterwards. I really don't know what to suggest...I'm kind of confused about this too, actually. I'm not sure if it's when he touches my cervix that it hurts, but whenever it hurts me he stops immediately and wants to make sure I'm ok. Make sure your boyfriend knows how it feels for you, and that you're only doing it in a way that it feels good for you.

Answer 5

too deep. Have him back off a little.  

Answer 6

whenever the cervix is bumped it usually feels painfull. just don't let him go so deep.

Answer 7

the reason why this is happening is because yr bf is too rough and he is going to deep  

Answer 8

i like it. my boyfriend did it too me and it felt fine. maybe hes not doing rite.