It is all about virginity?

Question

ahm,,is it ok that my fiancee is not a virgin anymore???

it hurts me because she told me that she's a virgin woman

when I court her,but when we are getting married and having s*x the night before

the wedding she told me that she's not virgin anymore.and I was shocked

when she told me that.what should I do???should i accept her or not??

she my first time.but im not her first s*x...im a catholic person and im searching a woman that all of the first in her is me...it hurts me so much,so please help me what should I do....

Answer 1

u should talk to her why she told so, i mean is that because she was having a v****a-p***s intercourse with u only, or with someone else. if it's someone else, ask urself that can u guarantee to get a virgin anymore even if u leave her since u got married.

Answer 2

haha, wow. You should like be shocked that you are still a Virgin. Also learn how to speak English.

But anyways, who cares if she is not a virgin, if she is honest and truthful with you now that is all the matters. Plus it is your fault that you are still a virgin. And trust you were not have s*x the night before, and you know it... U are still a VIRGIN man..

wow...u need a life, or have s*x like really SOON.

Answer 3

'-___- YES U SHLD ACCEPT HER!!

Answer 4

go find another fiancee

Answer 5

It may not have been her first time for s*x, but it was her first time to make love. You are the one she loves and you love her. It doesn't matter that she was not a virgin, it only matters that you want to be with her. Forget about the past and enjoy your new life together.

Answer 6

well even though that she not a virgin  accept her you court her anyways...

ITS REAL HARD TO FIND A PURE WOMAN THESE DAYS......

accept the fact look at her other side.

for example make a list of her positive and negative sides..

sometimes virginity don't count does she love you? do you still love her??? ask

?

when the first day you saw her do you fell to her or did  you only court her because she told you that she's a virgin, ask her why did she lie..... maybe she loves you and she's afraid to lose you.

remember that:

ITS THE MISTAKES AND IMPERFECTIONS OF A PERON  THAT MAKE HIM/HER PERFECT AND UNIQUE FOR ANOTHER PERSON.....

IF YOU LOVE HER START ALLOVER AGAIN IF NOT IM SORRY..

nobody is perfect for "everybody". someones up there,, whos perfect!

PS

im only fourteen but dude never make a girls cry!

and dude im only saying this your the one who should make the move! ^^, ............I FEEL LIKE I'M A LOVE GURU! hehe

..................GOOD LUCK ON YOUR DECISION.....................

Answer 7

you should value her for the person she is, not her virginity.

Answer 8

OK dude your english sucks! she probably meant that shes not a virgin cuz she bangin you right now- and you probably misinterpreted what she said to mean that she had it with another guy... which she probably didn't.

and stop bein a baby.  ohh, it hurts... it hurts...

well I'm a christian too, and i'll be damned if I'm going to make my God look bad by bein such a baby about the stupidest misunderstandings, and not knowin the english language to boot.

Answer 9

she said shes not a virgin anymore maybe because you two were doin it at that moment???  

Answer 10

Do u prefer virginity over relations?? Its not fair to discard her for dat stupid cause. May b u r d culprit behind her not being virgin..!!!!!

c this n get relaxed:http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question/?qi...

Answer 11

"but when we are getting married and having s*x the night before

the wedding she told me that she's not virgin anymore"

She's not a virgin anymore becuase you guys had s*x before your wedding night...

Answer 12

OK,have s*x with some other girl and get rid of frustration!

Answer 13

I don't think s*x should be the major issue in a relationship. Just because she had s*x before doesn't make her any different from what you felt for her before. Because of this you're going to change your mind about her? That doesn't sound right. Give her a chance, maybe ask for an explanation?

Answer 14

call of the wedding

Answer 15

maybe she said she wasn't a virgin since you guys were having s*x at that moment. and accept her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 16

DO U REALLY LOVE HER?? cos if u do, u wont be asking this silly question.. cmon.. if both of u r trully in love,, the heck with virginity.. and its not her fault ur still a virgin..

Answer 17

A marriage is a holiest relationship........so each end every aspect should be water clear. But in your case it does not happpened.since you came to know this at the last moment so u have almost nothing to do. Now try to be come and cool and try get to know why she does this ........may be she loves u a lot but dont want to loose u. If it is then u should accept her ......bcoz people are born to make mistake.....but we should give them chance to livwe a healthy life.  

Answer 18

First, you both have trust issues that need to be addressed.  I wonder why she waited so long to share this with you.  If you can't get past these issues, this may be a short marriage.

More importantly, you seem to view her virginity as a prize, rather than a gift.  As with most things, you would do well to focus on how well you have preserved your own purity more than how well she has preserved hers.  Please notice I said purity, not just virginity.  If you've been pleased by every girlfriend you ever had, but not had s*x per se, I would hardly call that purity.  Where do stand in that regard?  Is there a plank in your own eye, bubba?

Please don't feel condemned by my statements.  I just feel that you're in a tough situation.  You've had premarital s*x now, so if you don't marry this girl, you can't offer any other woman what you expect from her - virginity.  So either try to iron out this thing - and quick - or prepare to be another male hypocrite who sees men who have s*x before marriage as studs and women who do so as whores.

Signed,

Father of three daughters

and repentant former hypocrite

Answer 19

ID PREFER A VIRGIN!

GET ANOTHER GIRL

its not the same if ur virgin and shes not...