It is good to be a single, at my age 17 yrs of old?

Question

I am a shy girl, i don't want to be with other people around me, especially to the boys.

I always hiding myself, for those people hu I don't know well. I know it is time for me to be with other people, asking them, making conversation with them. but fnow I am moving on...but my problem is I want to have a boyfriend, but due to lack of trust to other guys, I'm forcing myself to be forever single.. I don't know how to approach guys, even go out with them. I'm scared with them, coz I know that it only hurts my feelings. I want some guy hu accept me for hu I am, someone hu always reminding me in some things that I failed to see, and someone hu will show me others perspective in life. and I want to be him the first and last guy in my life.I know it's hard to find that kind of guy, and that is the reason why as of now, I'm still single.

What should I do?

can you find that kind of guy?(I know it's suck!)

Answer 1

well being single is goood however you do not want to put yrself off in a corner and always be alone spending time w/yrself is great just don't do it alot!!!!

just wait 17 is too young to be trying to find yr mate concentrate on more important things like yr self

Answer 2

I was like this all through high school, I always wanted a boyfriend, but I was always to myself and very shy, never did I approach a guy or anything. All I did was give it time and before I know it someone came to me. A few weeks before I graduated. We have been together for a yeah and a half now. So all i'm saying I guess is give it time, your young and finding a guy will happen at the right time for you. The first might not be the right one for you, you will get hurt but you have to be strong. The right person for you will come along. For now enjoy being single and not having a boyfriend.

Good luck.  

Answer 3

Learn to spell "who."

Hey, branch out.

Answer 4

Why is this in the toddler section?

I really have no advice for you other than I hope some day you have enough confidence to believe in yourself.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Honestly, at 17 yrs old you probably aren't going to find "the one". But it is healthy to have relationships. But if you are trying to wait on "the one" don't necessarily expect him anytime soon. You are young and you still have a lot of people to meet in your journey.