It is like being in high school all over again..?

Question

Can I please rant for a moment... And I know I have to take part of the blame. Ever have one of those people you work with that are trying to kill you or at the least make you crazy..?

Well I have one of them in spades. She is the know it all and the "I have done it all " and OH MY GOD " I am your boss and you are stupid and I have to tell you what to do all the time".

I have worked in hotels for over 10 years compared to her ONE hotel, the one we are at now..SO I do know a little of what I am doing..

We have a regular guest that she keeps going on and on about and when I bring him 'flirting' with me, she looks at me as if that is the most Ridiculous things she has ever heard, "he's wouldn't do that and you know it" funny thing is she does not know him and I have gone to dinner a few time when he is in town.

I know I am acting as much of a teenager as she is.. HELP ME STOP!!

Answer 1

You aren't acting like a teenager, you are just letting off steam, and there is nothing wrong with that. Where ever you go and no matter what line of work you are in there is always 'one' just like her...

Just take what she says with a pinch of salt, try not to let her bother you, or get to you, i mean, is she so important to you that you allow her to get you so wound up?! No she isn't..

She sounds like a bit of an idiot who simply enjoys winding you up, and bragging..

Some people need to 'show off' and 'brag', but it is a sign of insecurity, so perhaps instead of getting pissed off with her or annoyed, maybe you should feel sorry for her, pity her instead..

Anyway, like i said before, have a rant and let off steam, it's better than bottling things up...

Answer 2

If she is not your boss, just ignore her and avoid her.  Don't talk to her.   People who think they know everything are usually brainless as bags of hair.

If you must talk to her, give her closed ended answers like "No, yeah, uh-huh".   Conversation is like tennis,  it is no fun talking to someone who won't return your conversational ball.   If you do get stuck somewhere and having to listen to her, just say "Excuse me I need to barf" and leave.

Answer 3

She must be a Libra, and you must be an Aries.

Correct me if i am wrong.

EDIT=Wow, didnt see that one commen' lol

Answer 4

yeah...that was interesting

i hope you feel better now that you had a rant

she sounds annoying. just take a deep breath, and count to 10

if you really can't deal with her, then be immature and imagine her being hacked into pieces or falling off a balcony or something if it makes you feel better...but try and be nice

Answer 5

yeah she sounds like a b-i-tch!!

Answer 6

How long have you worked there?  I wouldn't tell her anything about the customer flirtng with you unless it is sexual harrassment, your boss sounds like a real piece of work, if you have worked for hotels a long time, and you haven't been there long, i would probably move on.

good luck to you