It is my fault my crush hates me?

Question

Hey im a 15 year old girl in high school and i still like my crush. (hes 18)He was the first guy to ever ask me out to the movies, my first kiss, and the first time a guy ever told me i was pretty. With him i thought for once the guy i liked would be my bf. I never thought that before with other guys. None of my other crushes ever liked me back. I gave him so much love and attention cuz he was special to me for all those reaons. I even asked him like 3 days after the kiss if he wanted to be with me and he said no. Just as friends. We were friends after that Its just the last month of school, he avoided me and ignored me around school. Whenever he saw me coming, he wud walk faster or in a different direction. Or sometimes pretend liek im not even there.

I feel liek its all my fault cuz he prolly thought i was being clingy or showing liek i need him or like him too much. Its just i DID liek him a lot. I feel so stupid....its the 5th day of school now and we haven't even said a word to each other.

My heart hurts so much......

Answer 1

here's a secret--liek is spelled LIKE...and anyway...maybe he realized that he doesn't LIKE you that way, and is avoiding you because he doesn't think you'll just wanna be FRIENDS...get it?

Answer 2

not everybody likes someone back in the same way...i don't think he saw any real chance of a relationship with you because you were younger....and he told you that at the beginning and was honest with you ....Because you have a crush you will seem clingy to him...this doesn't mean you did something wrong as much as you did it to someone who doesn't feel the same way back......the hurt will pass and you will meet someone closer to your age who is not a crush but more a bf.

Answer 3

hes an asswhole, sorry but thats how it is its not ur fault jus find someone else.

Answer 4

FIND SOMEONE ELSE. SHOW HIM THAT YOU DONT NEED HIM, THEN I BET HE WILL START TO PAY YOU ATTENTION AGAIN :)

Answer 5

YOUNG PEOPLE THESE DAYS GOT TO KNOW HOW LIFE IS. YOU GOT TO FACE THAT HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU AND THE REASON WHY IS BECAUSE YOUNG PEOPLE BRING TOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCCCCCCHHHHHHH DRAMA. ANYONE WOULD AGREE WITH ME. SEE HOW MUCH YOU ARE GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW? THAT IS EXACTLY WHY HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE PART OF IT. AS HARD AS IT MAY SOUND, JUST START MOVING ON. EVERYONE THAT ANSWERS THIS WILL BE WRITING THE SAME THING. YOU GOT TO UNDERSTAND THAT 18 YEAR OLD GUYS WOULD RATHER BE WITH 18+ GIRLS. YOU'LL REACH A POINT IN LIFE THAT YOU WOULD NOT WANT A YOUNGER BF BECAUSE OF THEIR IMMATURE BEHAVIOR. MOVE ON...

Answer 6

U did the same thing i recently did..obsess over the person  u have to stop talking to him for a while and make him miss u

Answer 7

love hurts- you didnt do anything wrong. FInding a relationship that really clicks on both sides is freakin hard...hang in there- the good news is your 15 and someone liked you- that means you ARE probably hot, or at least likable,so you will have other chances- just relax and dont worry- time will take care of your broken heart :)