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It is possible to be happy alone if you have all everythings xcept love?

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i have a lot of friends,family but when i go bck my room i fell so sad and nothing!advice me plz!!!!1

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  1. i feel the same way , it is possible dont worry you will find someone out there one day !


  2. YES. BUT IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU NEED LOVE. SO GO ON SOME DATES AND SEE IF IT HELPS YOU. GOOD LUCK. BETTY.

  3. There is someone for everyone- that's what they say. You can be happy, trust me. Even if you don't find "the one" you can still fulfill your dreams. You have my best wishes.

  4. I think that different age groups react differently to this situation.You couldn't give the same advice to 16 and 45 year-olds for many obvious reasons.No doubt both could be happy on their own for a period of time,but a 16 year-olds need to experience love and affection in their lives whereas a 45 year-old has probably been there and done it and ,could possibly be happy to spend the rest of their lives

    with just good friends and family with,or not as the case may be,an occasional night out as needs must? Anyway Kenna,what i'm saying is that an age group is important in this instance and very difficult if you dont want to disclose it.    Sorry for rambling on a bit

  5. i know, its kinda a lonely life to lead, but sometimes being a lone can be a better life?it opens up time and places in your heart for other things and other loves?such as helping the poor or sick. working with children?writing a novel, reading everything you can get your hands on?seeing the world, falling in love with things you never knew of?knowing yourself and liking you to?you really don't need a mate or a lover to be happy?just many good friends and family can be awesome, especially when you have the time to spend with them?there's always your dreams and the future, don't push things, they'll come in time my love.have faith and believe one day, your prince will come?

  6. Being alone sucks at first but you can learn to become angry enough that you don't need anyone's help to do anything. Anger protects you from stupid people. You can do this on your own.

  7. Yes - in fact, many people believe that you have to be happy on your own and love yourself before you can be happy with and love another person.

    Love is not the only way to experience fulfillment in life. I find a lot of joy in my education, my work, my dog, my friends, my family, etc. I wasn't even "looking" for love when I found it - and I think that's one of the best and worst parts of love. That's crappy to hear from other people, but all of my experiences and observations have taught me that - you can't control love, it has it's own agenda!

    All people experience love differently, too. Just because our culture instills virtue in the whole romance experience of finding "the one" and marrying him/her and having lots of babies doesn't mean that's "the way." I have a lot of friends who are 20 and married... d**n. I have a lot of friends who are 25 and have no prospects or interest in relationships/love. It's different for everyone!

    I guess what I'm getting at is... don't feel like you have to find love at a certain time or in a certain way. It's a highly personal experience and you shouldn't be pressured or rushed into it. Just do what makes you happy and life has a way of working it out!

    If you feel lonely when you go back to your room - don't! Go out with friends or family. Go on dates. Find new hobbies - learn how to knit or dance or something. Don't dwell on what you don't have - find joy in what you do!

    Good luck. :)

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