It would be nice if i could get some advise!?

Question

Hi, if you are reading this please answer this i am begging you i need some help and this is very new to me! have no idea what to do!

Ok so last year was my first year of starting public school. Before i was at a very small private school only like about 30-40 kids. i no its small! It was a big change for me! and most people no the dating game! But not me I started 8th grade this year and i want 2 start dating but i don't no how to like get guys to notice me! There are tons of girls that's are popular than me and i think prettier than me! i wish guys would notice me more! i feel so invisible! and i am not the new girl any more! i am kind of shy and i only talk 2 my friends and people i know really well! i talk to guys but only as friends! i don't want 2 stick out to much! but i want guys to notice me more! This year i really want 2 start dating! And i am not desperate or any thing! If you could give me advise please! i don't know what 2 do i am lost! i need help! i don't want like 2 word answers please! This would mean a lot 2 me if you answered this! Please state your age and gender when you answer this also! thx!

Answer 1

Be yourself and flirt with the guys that catch your eye. ;)

Answer 2

Before you pick just anyone to date, think. Know that who you date will define you to others. I like to pick the tough guys that look like they could snap your neck right off, which I am sure they could. But that is not the point. The point is make sure you do not date some dude for a few days or else you seem flaky. I personally met think guy that I really liked and he dated this one girl for a few weeks to p**s me off since I think he liked me. ;) I suggest that you should flirt with a guy that you like until he almost asks you out. Then before he does but NOT THE SAME DAY!!!!!!!, date some cute but not sweet guy to make the guy you like jealous, then make him dump you. And DO NOT ACT HURT. Or heartbroken that will not work. But be sure to flirt with the guy you DO like even when you are dating the "other" guy. Good luck! You can eMail me if you want. If you have any other questions. And I just might tell you my bizarre love story. ;)

Answer 3

I'm female and 19. At your age I was very shy and thought little of myself. But when I got to my senior year of high school, my confidence had risen and I started to get noticed. It's all about the attitude, and you can't believe from the start that there is no hope.

Start joining clubs at your school and when you go to school/club functions don't be a wall flower, no matter how tempting it may be. Being yourself will get you noticed for the right reasons.

Keep in mind that good things come to those who wait. I waited until my senior year to date, and I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now. Plus guys your age are mostly immature and not really dating material. No harm in waiting until they're a little more seasoned.

Answer 4

put a pic of yourself on here and we could give you makeup tips and stuff but other than that, just be more eccentric and noticeable. I am a 13 year old girl...(i'll be 14 in October)

Answer 5

hmm well I'm your age i believe. I'm in eighth grade. maybe just talk to them and wait till its the right time.

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Answer 6

well one of the only ways to get a guy to notice you and start liking you is to talk to people (guys) and branch out. im an 8th grade girl and i know what it feels like, if you have any classes with someone you like then just start talking to them. if you want a boyfriend then you have to branch out. good luck.

Answer 7

find a hobby that boys like are you athletic? skateboard or bmx type stuff. guys like girls who like the stuff they do. if not into athletic stuff start going to shows of music you like, or find a new genre buy cds and listen then go to shows, guys will start up a conversation with you and as liong as you like the same things you'll have plenty to talk about. good luck!

Answer 8

well if you want more guys to notice you, you gotta..idk talk out more in class. if youre always the shy girl sittin in the back of the room, then they wont even know youre there. stand out. also, i dont think you should be "dating" in 8th grade. thats SO young. just boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. thats how it is when i started high school. i wanted a lot of boys to notice me, but they didnt. they noticed all the girls that were prettier than me. but once they got past those girls, they would see all the others. just give it time. and be outgoing.