Its abot my love matter . i don't knw wt to do?

Question

hi i am 20 delhi gal nd from last 2 and hallf year i am in love with a boy nd v both thimk that we r the perfect one for each other . bt he is apunjabi and i am abrahmin girl and his family is agreed but as far as i know esp. my dad won;t be ready . last year my family got to know about him they forced me to finish this nd that time i talked to him and we deciced to end it up but our lives were hit so badly by this seperation that we again came in contact . we both r from middleclassfamily and . rite now we are studying and focused to our careers but later what we will do . . we both neither want to leave our families nor each other . we both love each other very much . and rite now we are meeting less talking less . and i just can;t imagine my life without him . i really love him he also

Answer 1

First make your careers and grow up, when you are matured enough then only think of marriage, these days religions are all mixed up, parents will definitely agree at that time.

Answer 2

you must just for your time to come . . life may a turn anytime . . your parents will agree after some ,,, u might not know that now .  

Answer 3

hey listen leave that guy if ur parents are not happy cuz if u marry him ur parents wouldn't accept it an what if he leaves u after marriage then where would u go not 2 ur parents obviously cuz they wouldn't let u i n

Answer 4

dear frd,

              ur dad is not ur animy.he loves u lot.in this age some time it becomes too attractive when some one likes us,but be practical.take care.

Answer 5

I think you are doing the right thing. Keep the tempo as it is till your studies are completed & then you both can get married. After studies anyhow you both will go for jobs & then there will be no fear of depending upon your parents. As much as possible try to get your parents' consent before marrrying, b'coz it will be good for them & even you. I mean you'll have the love & wishes of your parents with you, otherwise somewhere or sometime in your lifetime you'll feel that you have done wrong by marrying without their consent. Hopefully they'll agree as now a days it is common to marry a person whom you love. Anyway, all the best & wish you all the success in life.

Answer 6

consult with ur partner and also with ur parents. if, it fails, sorry to say u have to sacrifice one thing to acquire another. but, u have to choose which one to get!! life s in ur hand!! all the best!!

Answer 7

I don't understand your question i think you need to book up on your english a little better and no I'm not being mean either  but i cant seem to follow the question

Answer 8

Ms. Gun, u said u r studyng so u need to concentrate on ur studies, get a job and be independent.  and after u get a good job ask ur parents this is the person u wana marry.  if they agree well n good if they dont get court marriage done and with good jobs in ur hands u both can have a small but ur own world.  its just u need to give some time for this tell him as well that aftr u both find a good job u both will b getting married.  For the time being just concentrate on ur studies this study phase can either result in smthng gud for both of u or will ruin ur love and dream of marryng with each other.  Best of Luck  

Answer 9

You need to go back to school and learn how to spell and learn english better before you even think about marriage.

You sound to dumb to get married.

Answer 10

make sure the guy is correctly boosted by your presence in his life and does a good job ASAP to support a family of two...then wait...no one can force u to marry anyone of their choice...its illegal..and u can always go the legal way...why not even if its ur family..u r going to get married anyway in one or two years...and then u r going to spend more of ur life with ur partner than ur mom and dad...would u like to spend the most with someone of their choice  not urs and keep thinking about the time u could have spent if u were with this guy...just be patient and hold on to the love...2.5 yrs is quite good...u two do know each other...go for it...u be strong and make him strong...good luck...and always remember our govt is not so bad...u can ask their help if needed...u r adult...they are bound to respond....ITS YOUR LIFE

Answer 11

ITS A COMMON PROBLEM, U R ATTACHED WITH UR FAMILLIES,

U BOTH NEITHER WANT GIVE  TO UP UR FAMILIES  NOR WANT TO GIVE UP UR RELATIONS.

LOVE REQUIRES SACRIFICE, IF YOU HAVE LOVE WITH YOUR PARENTS THEN FORGET EACH OTHER.

OR OTHERWISE  FORGET YOUR PARENTS,

THE SECOND CHOICE MAY HAVE GOOD RESULTS, AS IN ABOUT 75% CASES PARENTS HAVE ACCEPTED THE DECISION OF THEIR CHILDREN.

IN THE FIRST CASE U WILL LOSE 100%, AND IN THE SECOND CASE U HAVE CHANCES TO GAIN 75%, SO LET THE TIME DECIDE UR FUTURE.

OR OTHERWISE

U BOTH CAN REFUSE TO MARRY AT ANOTHER PLACE TO YOUR PARENTS FOR THE NEXT 2-4 YEARS, AND SAY THEM THAT U WILL MARRY EACH OTHER ONLY WITH THEIR CONSENT, OR OTHERWISE WILL NOT MARRY AT ALL IN THE WHOLE LIFE.

Answer 12

Learn how to speak in full sentences and then come back and ask.

Answer 13

Hi...buddy nice ques  u both try to hav patience n try to request your  dad abt your relationship and say frankly 2 him u can't leave without him and say your dad to make right decision ba-bye