Its about my kid,2 years old.he is nerves all time.and craying,to get any think he wante,how can i deal with ?

Question

Its about my kid,2 years old.he is nerves all time.and craying,to get any think he wante,how can i deal with ?

Answer 1

He might be eating some foods that are irritating his nervous system or maybe he is getting too much sugar?  Little babies need good food, milk, whole foods and not cookies or processed foods.  They definetly don't need sodas.  Maybe you should look over his diet?

Answer 2

A lot of it is his age. It will get better as he gets older. Try not to get frustrated with him (it is hard, I know) and just be firm. It will be easier on you in the long run if you start being firm now and show him how crying isn't really the best solution for him.

It gets better :)

Answer 3

Sometimes, it's o.k. for a child to cry. Other times, like if he is sick, in pain, bleeding, over tired, hungry, or in need of a diaper/pull up change then it is time to help him. It sounds like you already know the "Why" to his crying. It has gotten to a point where he knows that his crying will get him anything he *wants* (he may really be one of these smart kids who are intelligent enough to understand this concept, kids are smarter then we give them credit for) but we all have times where we *want* things that we don't necessarily *need*. The real question is "dealing" with the crying when you say, "No". Often times if I tell one of my kids no and they just keep crying in my face. I tell my kids straight up "Mommy is getting angry/frustrated. I think one of use needs a time out....I AM GOING TO MY ROOM!" And I go (seriously) I walk in there, lock the door, stick my head under the pillow and chill out until I can REALLY deal with the crying. Often times they just quit and then I can come back out again. Other times, they go to their room. I choose to keep their toys and clothing in a closet with a lock so if they are working out frustrations (example; throwing a tantrum) in their bed there is nothing but blankets, pillows, and a few stuffed animals to throw around. Kids are people, you can't *control* them anymore then you can *control* the weather. I also use redirection as often as I can. If my 20 month old tells me she wants a cookie I have to tell her, "No cookies....you can have this (holds up pineapple cube) OR this (holds up cucumber slice). Often she will smurk and tell me "No" and bat me away with her hands...but I take a deep breath and repeat. After the second time I walk away and she usually protests for me to come back and then finally makes a choice. It's redirection. I try it with my 4 and 5 year olds too. There is no "easy" way in parenthood, that's for sure but as my kids get older I have been seeing the satisfaction of knowing these tricks have been working (fewer tantrums, better manners, invites from other parents to have my "well behaved" kids over after pre-school/kindergarten). It sounds like you are half way there (you know he is crying as a means to get you to give him whatever he wants) one more step and you can get all the way through.

Answer 4

Be the parent. He is doing what he knows how to do. He is two for God sake. You need to step back from the situation and exhale. Now have fun with your child and stop letting them run the show. You are the PARENT.

Answer 5

I think you said he is on your nerves all the time and cries to get stuff? if so, don't give in. Tell him no and stick to it. If you give in and let him have what he wants he will do that his whole life!