Ok, my husband has had depression on and off for the last few months, i have tried getting him help and talking to him, but he doesnt want to know about it, also his parents have tried but also no luck. He had gotten better and was doing fine untill a few weeks ago we bought a new house, and are in the process of selling ours (by the way this was HIS idea), but now the stress has gotten him all depressed again, to the point of him just sitting there not talking to anyone, ive tried to talk and ive gotten his parents to talk to him he just wont snap out of it. We have two kids and i work nights and it breaks my heart to leave my babies with him when hes sooo moody, but with our new mortgage i have to work. So yesterday he came home all angry and i told him i didnt care anymore, that my kids happiness is the most important thing, and that i was just going to go on as usual and basically ignore his mood. Later that night i got a phonecall saying i was selfish and it was my fault he was depressed and that we were only getting this new house to keep ME happy. So is it my fault, i just want my family to be happy, i dont know what to do anymore AAAARRRGGGHHHH. What do you think?
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