Its my 21st in 16 days and im 11 weeks pregnant?

Question

What can i do since going out is not an option :( xxxx

Answer 1

Get the girls round to plan a major party for after the baby is born. I was 3mths pregnant on my hen night, but made up for it 9mths after that.

Answer 2

I just turned 20 in july and was sooo thankful that I'm pregnant now rather than next year lol! But anyways, if I were you I would totally have a small girls night in or out and have tons of different virgin drinks! It's safe to have a glass of wine but if you're like me then you're not a big wine person. Just have fun and enjoy your night. I'm sure you'll make up for it once the baby comes! I sure would! LOL :-)

Answer 3

You can still go out to dinner with the girls, or whomever. Start a hobby. I am 10 weeks also 22 years old, and its boring now. My boyfriend and I normally sit around the pool, house etc..he drinks a beer and I dont!! Make virgin drinks if you can. I started to scrap book, and a journal to my baby. BUT YEAH ITS BORING!!

Answer 4

You could go shopping wiv friends and go for a special meal wiv friends and family.

Or you could go away for the weekend or something.

Early Happy 21st Birthday

Answer 5

Hi why cant you go out ? You can still go out and if yu mean you dont want to go out because you cannot drink and have fun then thats a stupid reason, since I have been pregnant I have been to partys and out for meals more than I ever did before I was pregnant, you dont have to have a drink to have a good time.  You can still go out for a night on the town if you feel like it just have soft drinks.

Answer 6

have a nice dinner with your best friends -- good company is all you need -- you dont need to go out and get drunk.  happy almost birthday!

Answer 7

You can go out with your friends to a resturant or something, just don't drink any alcohol.

Answer 8

i had my 18th while pregnant...i went out 4 a meal and cinemas and had few friends back to mine for a chat n stuff..i actually had a real nice time and it didnt involve 1 tiny drop of alcohol...your aloud like 1 glass but i wouldnt see the point in that really! you can always celebrate after or have a swinging 22nd!.you could also just go shoopping or something its not so bad!

Answer 9

I was about that when it was my 19th ( i know not like your 21st). i went to a nice restaurant with my boyfriend and had a sneaky glass of wine lol i had a really nice time though. You can do it with your bf or whatever or a group of friends x

Answer 10

go out have a nice meal and fancy drink with no alcohol and enjoy

Answer 11

I know how you feel hun, i turned 21 when i was about 6 weeks pregnant, i was so upset coz my partner ruined my 18th an i really wanted to make this one special. i cant even remember what i did for my 21st so it couldn't have been that good.

How about a good shopping trip with the girls? then a bit of lunch?

I hope you have a good time in whatever you do, don't do what i did and think its the end of the world, it isn't. You can always make up for it next year, pretend your 21 again. x*x  

Answer 12

You could go out for a nice meal with a few close friends or invite them round for a meal in. You could have a house party without going too mad! Or even better still a pyjama party, then you can have a good time and still be comfy in your clothes!!!

Answer 13

Have a dinner party, you can have one glass of wine to celebrate. My midwife told me one glass is fine, but no binging ( not that you would!). Have a lovely birthday.

Answer 14

Go out!  Go dancing, go for dinner, go to a comedy club - have a virgin dacari.!  Just cause your PG does not mean your life STOPS - it just alters!  

Answer 15

i will be 21 in 6 days

i will be 6 months pregnent

its on a tuesday and my bf dosent even get paid till the 30th boo to me hur oh well ... i will enjoy cake and wine lol enjoy yours.. ps if your stuck for ideas go for a nice picnic with friends x

Answer 16

I had the same problem, I found out I was pregnant about 2 days before by birthday! I honestly did not even care about going out I was way to tired. I just had a nice dinner with my family, my fiance's family and a few friends. Maybe next year!

Answer 17

have a nice time in with the girls, like a sleepover!

Lolz!

Answer 18

have your mates over!, have a bbq if the weather is ok, just have the girls over have a slumber party with good oldy movies.   I just went out for a lovely meal last week 4 my 26th with my family, my bfs family and had a lovely evening then home to relax.

Answer 19

I was 9 months pregnant on my 21st, stick it out

Answer 20

Have A glass of red wine.... other than that, spend the time with your friends.

I will be 8 months pregnant on my 21st Birthday, so I completely understand what you're feeling.  

Answer 21

A girly night in is always an option. I mean, okay, it probably doesn't beat going out, and having a really great time, but who says you can't have a great time at home. Buy some cheap snacks, and have the girls over, or maybe have a big house party, but limit yourself to what you drink. You could also discuss baby things with the girls, i am sure they wouldn't mind.

xx

Answer 22

you're pregnant

Answer 23

Grab some friends and go out for a nice dinner somewhere.  Happy Birthday!

Answer 24

Pamper yourself!!!! Go to a spa. Maybe you and your baby's daddy can get a tandem spa treatment, or maybe you and some girlfriends can get a pedicure. Have fun and relax!

Answer 25

o i know how you feel.. i was suppose to have a hellacious party for my twenty one and just found out. that i will be like 5 months prego!

AHHHHHHHHHH! grrr...

sucks huh?????

im up for hearin some ideas.... cause i dont knwo wat i goin to do..

grr

GOOD LUCK

and

CONGRATS