Its not that hard of a question,please,10 points!!!?

Question

ok look, ive asked about this before, anyways, im 17 and pregnant with my 22yr. old teachers baby, i told my mom i was at a party and the dad was some guy i didnt realy know, she accepted it but know, im not sure if i should tell her the whole truth.and how should i tell my teacher that he basicaly knocked me up?

if you think this is some kinda hoax then go away, i seriously cant posibaly stress to you how much i realy need advice right now! and i wouldnt make something this serious up! and im afraid my mom will tell the cops about it but i care for him! and he cares back! ( i think - i hope) and i know it was wrong so dont say it was, lesson well learned! it felt right at the time. all help is much appreciated, and please explain how i tell him. thanx!!!

Answer 1

My dear young lady....

What an "akward" situation you're in... You must be in "turmoil"...emotionally...I really feel WITH you !!!! Well...that's quite a conflict you're in & I am trying to help you as good I can.... First of all...honey, you should tell your Mom : the TRUTH !!! This may be difficult for you, but it's the only RIGHT way to approach the situation ! At the same time, you MUST inform "him" of the facts...-because he sure is "part" of this whole "odeal"....-so speak to him as well...Maybe the 4 of you will sit together & come up with a "solution"....

I sure wish you all the best for the future! Greetings from Germany & lots of Love & care... Annette***

Answer 2

Oh my yes your correct its wrong- think of your baby they need to know their father. Tell your mother- she will be angry but really you need her to trust you. Also tell the father- just spit it out and do it fast- like a plaster.

Good luck to you

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Answer 3

babe

you are just making yourself have more lies

evceryone is going to find out soon enough

so you should just tell the truth

theres not really any way around it

you could give the baby away?

there are lots of familys who will take it

im against abortions, but if there is no other option...

talk to him BEFORE you talk to your mom

if he doesnt care like you think he does, then you can get your mom to tell the cops

so my only real advice is to talk to him FIRST

best of luck <3 abby

Answer 4

Heya

at the end of the day this isnt somthing you can resolve on Yahoo Answers.

You need to talk to your teacher about it.

just tell him your having his baby

and he can be as involved as he wants

but i wouldnt tell your mum hun

It would just complicate things a million times more

you dont want that stress while your pregnant

I really hope it works out for you

if you need anything private message me

x

Answer 5

Girl you need to tell the truth! It is wrong what happened between you too! You need to just tell him you are pregnant! And yes he is most likely going to get in trouble, but he shouldn't have been having s*x with a 17 year old! Despite what you might feel for each other. It's illegal sweetie! Come clean!

Answer 6

tell the police and give the baby away to a family that can't have a baby. DON'T GET AN ABORTION. you know where im going with this? he is a TEACHER for goodness sake!

Answer 7

You need to tell your teacher that its his baby for one thing, you may need to keep it hush hush to your friends though because if this gets out, he could very well loose his teaching career.

You should tell your mom, but make it on a day she is in a good mood lol, its not like the father is a dummy, he's a teacher so she shouldnt be that ticked off! she already knows your prengnant anyways, this could be the good news of the situation, but try and keep her from telling your principal :)

Answer 8

um wow teacher has a baby with student that can't be good u are going to have to tell ur mom the truth and tell him to go to him first and be like we made a mistake i'm pregnant and it is ur baby if u don't want to be in jail ur going to help me then he helps u out and u tell ur mom and u explain to her that he is helping so there is no reason for him to go to jail sorry that all i can think of never hurd of something like this

Answer 9

in my experience the truth always comes out in the end, so surely it is better for your mum to find out now rather than later .

If your teacher gets into trouble then im sorry but thats his own problem as he knew what he was doing was wrong!!!!

I know it seems really tough at the moment but believe me when the truth is out and the dust has settled you will be glad you did it

good luck !! xx

Answer 10

I understand not wanting to tell your mom the truth about the situation. If you really don't want him to get in trouble then you told your mom the right thing. I would tell her the truth later. Maybe after you have the baby or are close to having it. That way she will have calmed down a bit. As for the guy, just tell him. Just blurt it out if you have to. You can call him or tell him in person but just make sure you tell him soon so you know if you can count on him for support.  If you need anymore advice feel free to email me [e-mail]

Answer 11

22 is dat much older den 17, ur almost 18 so u should tell her, sh- t, if she's cool wit u sayin ur baby daddy is some random dude den she should be cool wit u tellin her dat it's wit a 22 year old.

but...don't tell her it's ur teacher, dats where da lawsuits and charges will come in...i think

Answer 12

i dont know but youre gonna have 2 *** clean

Answer 13

you poor thing.  i think you should tell your mom the truth. i know it's hard, but if you don't it's gonna haunt you. and if you think your mom will tell the cops maybe you shouldn't tell her.  but if you teacher really cares for you he'll be right with you when you tell your mom. good luck. and if you ever need someone to talk to email me ok. bye  

edit: how you should tell him umm. you could do it in a fun way like tell him i'm gonna give you a gift 9 months from now.  or tell him you gave a problem & the problem will only get bigger. or do it in a serious way. just sit him down and tell him.

Answer 14

first, dont get a abortion. tell him straight out then tell the cops. he should not be teaching if this is going on. have a adoption and sue his a**. your 17 hes 22.... your underage.

Answer 15

Ok..well...if HE cares for you..then he would be standing right NEXT to you while you tell your Mom. PERIOD.

This is a no-brainer ! I do not care what the teacher has on the line , he knew that . he took the chance and so did you.

Trust me,one lie leads to another...leads to another...leads to another.

The teacher is a man,an ADULT man. He is a YOUNG adult but still, an adult. You are not. You have now put yourself in an adult situation, you BOTH better step up and do the responsible thing.

Your right, it is a simple question,with a simple answer.

Answer 16

It depends on your state. At 16 some states say that you have the choice to have s*x. But tell your mom because eventually she is going to find out especially if you care for and want this guy in your life. If you explain to your mom how much he means to you and that you want a father for your baby then I'm sure she'll understand. She might be disappointed but you will feel better. Don't stress to much it's bad for your health and for the baby.

Answer 17

ok you did the right thing by telling your mother that you are pregnat , butshe needds to know the WHOLE  truth. remember that your mother will ALWAYS  be there for you , and your teacher wont. you are questioning yourself about wether he cares about you or not....thats no doubt that he doesnt. i know that there is a ton of things worrying you right now , but relax for a lil bit and think about all the answers you are getting. IF your teacher really cared about you at all , why would he sleep with you or any OTHER student?  why didnt he think about your future? he knew there was a chance of you getting pregnat wether you all used protection or not. nothing you use is 100%safe ! he knew very well what possibilities he could be facing and now there you are, 4months pregnat and scared about what you should be doing.he was thinking of HIMSELF and his pleasure with you while this was taking place,so now you need to do the same for you and your unborn child. tell your mother the truth , but be prepared for anything that comes of it.she may accept it or go against it and press charges . i would press charges if i was your mother . you had a whole life ahead of you, and now you have a challenging life and baby to care for. caring for a baby and having to finish school is not easy at all , but that is something you got yourself into. right now ,i can almost guarantee you that your teacher wishes he hadnt slept with you at all. im not saying that you caused all this , but it 2 of you to get where you all are now in this situation.it isnt fair to you to only be 17 ,still in school and pregnat with anybody child  let alone your teachers! talk to your mother with the truth and make her aware that it was voluntary and not rape.it isnt fair to accuse someone of rape when you consented to it. i wish you lots of luck in this matter. finishing up school and going onto college isnt impossible , but it will be very difficult due to a baby in your responsibility. that child will have to have everything he/she needs before you . feel free to email me if you wanna talk or need more advice on this......

Answer 18

Tell your mom-you are going to need the teacher to pay for your child.

Answer 19

Hun you need to tell your mom and tell the principal..You need to make sure he does not do this with any other women..What he did is VERY illegal weather or not you are 17 and he is 22..

Answer 20

how did u tell her the first time? Start out like that then say, uh.... Mom, u know how I said I didn't know that guy? Well, it was mr. What's his face...  That's how I would do it. And u may think u love him I really don't think u do, because I'd he loved u back he wouldn't have done it. He would have wanted the BEST for u. Not to ruin your 'child hood'

Answer 21

you need to tell your mother the truth

Answer 22

well your pregnant so you should tell your mom who the real father is. just tell him be like uhm u kinda got me knocked up.

Answer 23

OK well i guess ur eventually going  have to tell them.  If you don't tell them now there never going to trust you again. To tell them i suggest you sit them down when they're calm like at dinner and say something like "mom i have something to tell you." "you know how i got pregnant and everything, well it kinda wasn't with who i told u it was with, it was my .... teacher".

Then when u tell him hes the father... tell him "ya know when we were at the party(or wherever you were) and we did it well im kinda pregnant and ur the father" and then u can run or stay to see what he says.

xoxox godd luck to you all

Answer 24

ok...... seriously you should tell your mom the truth, and you should also tell your teacher....... 22 wow a little young to be a teacher but ok lol... Anyways, you definately need to come clean to both, he needs to know because he's the father and your mom needs to know because she is your support system, explain the situation to her...... also explain to her that you care about him and do not want him to get into any kind of trouble........ although i do not agree with a teacher sleeping with a student thats just ridiculous..... think of how many other students he's doing this with??? Anyways, tell the whole truth to both of them.......... they can only deal with what you tell them, if you continue to lie it will only make it worse in the long run, trust me honesty is the best policy because eventually it will come out anyways, better now than later when it hurts alot more people and is confusing to your child.