Its sad to know my daughter will never met her father?

Question

it really hurts because in the begging of my pregnancy its was all good where we went wrong i dont know . But for him to tell me to get him for child support cause he dont want to have nothing to do with me or the baby hurts my feeling. it has gotten big headed cause females is started to be on him .

Answer 1

my son will never meet his father, due to the fact that he lives in california and we live in illinois. i was also raped and have no contact with him whatever. i once tried to get him involved, but we just couldn't work things out so i said don't bother you have your own life with you have your wife and son with her don't worry about us, we'll be fine without you. i feel bad that things are the way they are, but it's his loss, and Henry doesn't seem to mind it's just us. Some guys can't handle fatherhood, as long as she has what she needs from you and from life, she doesn't need a father.  

Answer 2

im in the same situation but a lil bit different. My daughters father wants nothing to do with us. I honestly dont carea about him wanting anything to do with me but she is not at fault for the decision I made of keeping her. He doesnt even want me to get him on child support. So, I decided that Emeli (my daughter) cant miss something she never had so I honestly dont think that him not being there for her will make a difference.

I would get child support and raise your baby on your own...

Answer 3

My mom had me when she was 29 and I've never met my dad. I don't even know what his name is. Whatever you do just be there for your child. I grew up by myself and my mom constantly worked day and night 6 days a week to give me what I wanted but i kind of resent her for that because she was never there for me. It actually really screwed me up but i'm working on all of that now...definately get him for child support.

Answer 4

terribly but if he is as illiterate as you then it is a good thing

Answer 5

Yes it is kind of sad, but if the father is like that, then maybe it's not such a bad thing... You don't want a person like that being a father to your child. But don't worry keep your head up. You'll be just fine without him. Just be strong for your child. I wish you all the best!

Answer 6

Well, it's his DNA and legal responsibility to pay child support, and you should take him to court over it.

But, and I don't mean to sound rude, this is to be expected at your ages. 80% of teen parents don't stay together (wow, wonder why) so you're in the overwhelming majority. For now I'd stop feeling sorry for yourself and work your bum off to give this child the best life I can, because it's already been born with the short end of the stick.