My female colleague and i were discussing weddings and I was saying how I personally prefer a small wedding, with just a few close family members and friends. Then my male colleague buts into the conversation asking what we were talking about, so we told him. I was explaining how its pointless to have a big wedding and then 4-5 years down the road you're arguing wiv ur partner constantly and all that wedding expense has been wasted on a c**p marriage. Then what really surprised me was what he said afterwards. He says: "Well, just don't get married then." This really surprised me quite a bit because he has never spoken to me like this before. Why would he give a good friend advise like that? I really don't get him. He has never been negative about anything I say. He agrees with most of the things I mention, so I don't know why he's giving me such ill advise all of a sudden. He knows that I want to get married in the future and start a family as well. He also knows that I've been seeing a guy that I met online and we are really hitting it off. Why is he so unsupportive lately?
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