Iv asked alot of questions but prob should have put this in....is this our problem?

Question

its a little embarrassing---my boyfriend was circumsised when he was 3 (24yrs ago) and the operation was a little bit of a sham as he woke half way through it and has left his willy very scarred around the top.this has resulted in him being a lot less senstive, therefore whenever we BD in order for him to ejaculate he has 2 m********e and try and get there in time (not very romantic i know.) sometimes he does, others we miss a little.

im sorry this isnt the nicest of questions but im worried as we have ttc for 8months, i feel iv got answers to all the other questions i have asked but this is 1 point i havnt mentioned.

is it possible to get preganant like this? iv tried so many things xxxx

he gets quite upset that he ant do it naturally and im worried also.

thank you.

x

Answer 1

I don't think that it should make any difference how long he has been 'in there' before he ejaculates. As long as he is inside you, then it should be fine.

If sometimes it isn't working then that could be reducing your chances a little as you might not be having full s*x at the right time.

I'd say if it doesn't happen and it's a day when you think you are fertile, then try again later that day.

You can tell when you are fertile by using ovulation kits.

Good luck!

Answer 2

If you have been trying frequently for 8 months it does seem quite a while but I'm sure you will be successful eventually as it will only need a small amount of sperm at the right time.

But if he is able to m********e (despite his problem) and acheive ejaculation why is it not possible to do get the o****m through penetrating you?

Maybe a s*x counsellor could help?

Answer 3

No I don't think this is your problem.

There is nothing that says he cant put it back in when he feels the urge to *** during jerking off. All you need is a drop of sperm so if he puts it back in on time, there shouldn't be a problem. Pregnancy usually happens when you least expect it and not when you want. Be patient.