Ive been feeling really crappy lately?

Question

ive thought about commiting suicide many times, would rather not discuss the reasons as they make me feel worse and even closer to suicide. any idea what i can do to feel better, i dont really have any money to spend on stuff and i cant go to a doctor because i dont want my parents to find out (im 17 living at home in england)

Answer 1

What the heck your parents don't know????????????????????might as well tell them and get it over with...might not work but oh well

Answer 2

suicide never solves anything. commiting such an act leaves your family with other problems. try looking up a suicide hotline number in your area. i hope it helps

Answer 3

Just tell your parents and they will take care of it. Once you kill yourself you ain't coming back. Try going to church more often too.

Answer 4

do what makes you feel good  

Answer 5

Immediately after you read this,,,,,IMMEDIATELY, go to a hospital, or anywhere where you can get help and tell them what's going on. Suicide is no joke. All these answers I've seen here,,"go do something fun", "Hang out with your friends"......don't listen. If you were saying that you had a bad day and your feelin kinda bummed, thats great advice, go have fun with your friends. But we're talkin SUICIDE here.....s***w your friends, you need to talk to a PROFESSIONAL, someone who can help you get to the bottom of the problems you are having. You are very young, one year older than my oldest chil, by the way. The thought of her, or even you committing suicide makes me shiver in fright. You must get some help and involve your parents, trust me, the will want and NEED to know, because they love you. If for some terrible reason your parents are the cause of these problems, you still need to get the professional help and have them help remove you from that situation. You are 17 and an adult soon enough that you should be able to leave your home and that problem and just move on with your own life, with some help. Whatever you do, suicide is NEVER the answer. You are so young and have no idea the joys in life you have yet to experience. Don't rob yourself of that, or rob the people who love you of the one they care so much about. I too will give you my email address if you ask......

Answer 6

maybe u might need medication?? i think u should let our parents know, and maybe get theropy. Umm....u can talk to your friends and stuff and maybe go out.....sorry thats the best i can think of

Answer 7

go to a place where no Buddy of your family is near and relax your mind don't drink caffeine or coffee nothing that makes you energetic only drink natural juice i'm 50% sure that may work or go to a cruise vacation and relax i think you need that

Answer 8

u need prozac. why suicide. they are so not cool. on the verge of idiotic. why no money?. while i thought living in south east asia and in this developing country is hard. you guys up there just didnt know how hard it is to survive living down here. THERE IS A GUY DOWN MY STREET WHERE I LIVED JUST SOLD HIS KIDNEY to pay his bills. Do you have that on anywhere in england????. You lucky punks just dont get it. Should come by and see us suffer might make u think 200 times before attempting suicide you moron.

Answer 9

get involved in sports.

and dont sit home on the computer..

go to a park and walk with a friend

buy some cheap paint and paint a picture

Answer 10

Get out of the house more, find a spot, like by a river, or something, that will make you feel calm.

Whatever you do, don't commit suicide, the only people who do it are just selfish and are not really very responsible over them self.

If you are still in school, maybe you could find a group there of people who are having the same problems, and get together more often, you could either start a group, or join a group.  It helped me =]]] (usually at my school we get free food too :P)

You probably should tell your parents, but you don't have to agree with me here, it is your choice. (just letting you know, you should be sharing this with your parents)

And you should probably go to a doctor, or a therapist, or anything like that, because they will help!!!!!

Well, i wish i could have helped more but, i have to go...

Answer 11

Dude get some help.  Your to young at 17 to feel this way.  I'm 40 and wish I'd new at 17 what I know now.  thx

Answer 12

Isn't there some sort of suicide line you can call? I know there is a privacy policy in the United States, so you may want to check if they have that there too.

Or go here: http://www.hopeline.com/

Answer 13

I don't know your circumstances but I would really try and talk to your parents because surely they would sooner that than know there son had committed suicide or was thinking about it without them knowing he even needed help. That hurts so much. Please talk to them, I'm sure they would hate to think you were worried what they would think... it's not your fault you feel rubbish.

Answer 14

Hang out with friends?

Answer 15

I wish i knew what to say to help you. I know what it's like because I went though a time when I was around 16 where I was extremely depressed and anti-social. All I can say is try to find something you enjoy doing, such as sports or a hobby. I know it sounds silly, but it really does help alot.

Answer 16

When you graduate high school join the army that's what a lot of ppl do  

Answer 17

Are you in school?  If you are then I would recommend visiting the counselor and talking to them, some times talking out loud about your problems to an unbiased source can really help.  Also I don't know what the law is in England, but more of the time your medical records are confidential, so for all your parents need to know you are going to the doctor for allergies.  Also, maybe you should bring this up to your parents... odds are they are going to be supportive to getting you back on the right track.  Good luck, and not to sound horribly cliche but it is always the darkest before the dawn.  Hang in there!

Answer 18

Make yourself a short term goal of going to higher education after you're done with regular schooling. That will give you something to look forward to doing with your life. That's a first step. Second step is to begin living immediately without regrets. Be polite every day, hug your mom and dad, tell them you love them, volunteer in your community, get some physical exercise, spend time with your parents, get good grades in school, read books, spend time playing games, enrich your mind. All of this is what you need to get yourself healthy. You are in charge of your own mental health and your physical health. Life is self directed. No one directs your life, but you. Be the best manager you can. Hugs.  

Answer 19

Get help. God bless you.

Answer 20

Talk to someone!!! Heck, If you need to, You could E-mail me to vent if you need to....I am a good listener...

Answer 21

move take all your money start a new life

Answer 22

get a grilfriend/ boyfriend talk to ur best friend about it.... or get an animal....  like a dog!! they really help..... sry bout ur life issues

check out youtube.com/crelly86

Answer 23

are you not allowed to see your doctor without him telling your parents everything? we are allowed in canada. you need to see some kind of doctor, and you cant leave it alone. i know you didn't discuss your problems, but if it has to do with your parents, are you sure that they would be against you having medication to make you feel less depressed? its hard to believe that a parent would rather her child live with severe depression than get help. sometimes kids assume the parents wont help, when they actually will. if you really cant rely on them- then ask gramma, or an aunty, or somebody you trust for help. you have to find it somewhere, good luck

Answer 24

I have been in your place. Try first to call a suicide hot line. You might need medication. I think you should talk to your parents. They are the ones that love you - IF they are the problem then you can go to a hospital and tell them you feel suicidal and would like some help. I did that and went into the hospital. They don't tie you to a bed or dope you up or abuse you as people think. You are on a regular type hospital floor that is locked for your protection and you go through blood tests and therapy classes and are treated by doctors and nurses.Sometimes it is because you have a thyroid problem or are diabetic and don't know it.If you don't have medical coverage, it doesn't matter they have to treat you under the charity care law.Please reach out for help, you will feel alot better. I do and am glad I did it.TO CONTINUE ON FROM YOUR ADDITIONAL INFO, YOU ARE NOT THE REASON YOUR PARENTS DIVORCED AND IF THEY TOLD YOU THAT THEN THEY ARE SH--TY PARENTS. IF YOU HAVE NO WAY TO GET TO THE HOSPITAL THEN CALL THE AMBULANCE FROM YOUR HOUSE OR GO TO THE NEAREST TELEPHONE IF THAT IS MORE COMFORTABLE FOR YOU AND CALL THE AMBULANCE FROM THERE. YOU NEED TO BE IN THE HOSPITAL. I WAS WHERE YOU ARE AND I HAVE A SON WHO ALSO WAS WHERE YOU ARE.GET TO THE HOSPITAL TODAY RIGHT NOW. YOU WILL BE VERY GLAD YOU DID AND MAYBE IT WILL WAKE YOUR PARENTS UP. GOD BLESS YOU AND I WILL SAY A PRAYER FOR YOU.BUT PLEASE CALL NOW.YOU ARE WORTH IT.