Ive been having a bit of trouble in the sack lately...

Question

alright.. so ive liked this girl for like 4yrs and we just recently got together.. everything is great.. we talk all the time just like we use to.. hang out and its just.. its great.. well we started having s*x and just about everytime i have came almost instantly.. ive tried slowing down.. ive tried speeding up.. i dont know WHAT the problem is.. Its like as soon as my p***s goes in.. the slightest breeze of air will set it off.. its ridiculous ive been having s*x since i was 17.. im 20 now and i have never had this problem.. every once in a while.. yea.. but its been like QUITE a few times.. and i dont know what to do.. i get frustrated cuz i know its not like me.. She says "dont worry about it.." but i am cuz i know its not doing anything for her.. I dont want to be foreplaying and her have it in her head.. owe here we go again.. but i dont know what to do.. shes the first girl ive had s*x with in about 7 months.. i "practice" regularly just like any other guy.. but im stuck.. im frustrated and its not even enjoyable when it happens.. it just pisses me off.. all i know is somethings gotta give..

Answer 1

Well its probably not helping your worrying about it and your girl. she'll have to deal with it at the moment but I STRONGLY advise going to a doctor, it really will help because he can diagnose it properly. Anyway good luck and hope your s*x life improves for the better =]

Answer 2

You must really like this girl then ;)

Just empty your mind when your doing it and perhap before you come you retract and wait a few seconds and start again just to prolong it slightly :)

Answer 3

wear a condom or two... it helps... and if you can... get the thicker ones...

Answer 4

try masturbating slowly with a condom on, get used to going without coming and wen u start masturbating for 3 minutes, STOP! then start again after a minute and continue a little longer until, u stop 10 minutes afterwards of stopping first and then u can let urself come! it works!

Answer 5

This is not rare. There are specific exercises for this, Google it, premature ejaculation.

Answer 6

Maybe try masturbating like an hour before you know your going to have s*x. The 2nd time usually takes longer.  

Answer 7

I used to have that problem too. I found that a device is easier to use than exercises. Of course, some device systems will come with exercises as well that you can use to get faster, bigger size gains as well as develop control over when you ejaculate. That's what has worked for me.

Answer 8

jerk it before you have a date with her. thus you don't have baby batter on the brain. also, why not eat her out and pleasure her first so theres no disappointment whatever happens?