Ive been having weird dreams........HELP???

Question

so about a week ago me and my mom got into a huge fight about her b/f b/c i dont like him (neither do my friends, sister or brother) and she told me she wanted me to go move to my dads house (he lives across the state) were okay now but ive been having strange dreams...

in my first dream i walked into the door of my house and saw my moms bf sitting there and for some reason i told him i didnt like him and my mom came running in from the office b/c she herd me and started throwing glass vases at me and i got a black eye from it.

in my second dream i was walking home from school and all my friends said they herd that i was planning on running away b/c of my moms bf and they were all sad and scared for me.

please tell me wat these dreams mean its really bugging me i dont even feel safe hugging my mom anymore.

Answer 1

i think those dreams mean that you still are hurt from what your mom said to you. maybe try sitting down with her and trying to talk it all out. by saying something like mom what you said really hurt me and i wanna know if you really mean it or not. you could even add in the dreams you've been having. good luck.

Answer 2

To see a vase in your dream, symbolizes the womb and all things feminine.  You are open to criticism or suggestions. The dream also represents creativity.

To dream that your eyes are injured or closed, suggests your refusal to see the truth about something or the avoidance of intimacy. You may be expressing feelings of hurt, pain or sympathy.

Answer 3

You are hurt because it feels like your mom is choosing him over you, the vase being broken represents the bond between you and your mom being broken (ie she breaks her womb which is where you came from. It is like you feel like she is throwing you away and you keep your eyes closed because you don't want to accept it. I think you need to have a long talk with your mom and tell her no matter what happens between the two of you threatening to send you away is not the way to handle it. She threw a low blow in the fight and she needs to promise not to threaten that anymore, I think if she does that the dreams will go away.

That being said you seem like a smart and sensitive person, which probably means, since your dad is across the state, and thus your mom probably raised you, that your mom is a smart and sensitive person too, and if this guy really is a bad person, she will realize it eventually. You have to give your mom a little slack, she is human too, raising you with your dad across the state, and probably hurt from that breakup/divorce no matter how long ago it happened. Moms are people too and make bad decisions, and have broken hearts, and need someone to cling to when they are scared to be alone. So avoid her bf, and give her time to figure it out :)

Answer 4

i dream about stuff thats on my mind.  or disasters i see on tv.

they don't mean anything.

Answer 5

I believe that this dream just reiterates the fact that you and your mom are having differences when it comes to her relationship with her boyfriend. Because of the fight that you guys had the first time, you may be a little hesitant to talk to her about this issue again. So your dreams are going a little overboard in as to what will happen if you talk your mom (vases flying or leaving friends behind).

I think that you need to have a sit down with your mom and really explain to her your feelings about him, why you don't like him and so forth. Put everything out on the table without getting overly emotional or heated. If you're calm, she'll be calm and you won't be so hesitant to tell her how you feel in the future. The dreams will eventually cease with the bettering of the relationship with your mom.

Answer 6

you dont like her bf and you too scared to tell him or her bc you scared what they might do or say