Ive been realy depressed lately &&. . . ?

Question

ive been realy depressed a couple things have happend like i really liked this girl brandie but the last couple of days i have realized she has been being mean in little ways tho she is like being mean but its sumthing little each day and like this new school year it has been a full week of school 5 days and i have been being more loud optimistic happy hyper giggly and stuff cuz last year i was all emo depressed cut myself shy never talked and i like this new me but im becoming the old me which im not happy with and i noticed my friends were happy that i was realy happy but i can tell their being able to tell im becoming sad cause on the bus my friend lindsey asked what was wrong and i said nothing and looked away and i smoke even tho im under age but i havent smoked in liek a week i quit and i dont feel liek smoking but i thought quiting would make it even better

Answer 1

Quitting does make it better.  It really does.  Addiction withdrawal is only for so long, but it still nags you.  You are too young to have anything nagging you.  Enjoy life, set the depression aside and know that life has many, many enjoyable things to offer, and good friends like Lindsey are just one of them.  You need to keep away from Brandie and ignore her.  She is very miserable and likes to make others miserable.  

Have fun with school. It is easier than you think.  You think it is hard until you go to work after college, then you realize that studying was not so bad and being with your friends for 8 hours a day 5 days a week is definitely a good time.  Enjoy.  And stay on target for making things better.  You are definitely in control of things, and that is a very good feeling.  Keep up the good work.

Answer 2

You know Brandie sounds like she has some insecurities that she is taking out on you.   Hurting people hurt people.... it might be a reason ..... but it's no excuse.   If you let her say her little comments & do her little nasty things ... it will just continue all school year.  

She might not realize that she is doing it..... so next time you need to bust her on it ...... try it in a joking way at first... most people get that.  But if she still is pulling her crappy attitude with you... pull her aside and ask her what's up with _____ fill in the blank.   If she doesn't get that then find some new friends.

My sister also loves this Christian lady Joyce Meyers

here is one of her tv broadcasts & she's not a brain washer .. she gives really practical advice that my sister loves .... I have even found myself agreeing with stuff she says too.... it is really inspirational when you feel like you don't have any friends & everyone is out to get you.

Hey it's free to check it out

http://www.joycemeyer.org/OurMinistries/...

Take care & God bless.

plus- stop smoking - girls that smoke taste like ashtrays. nasty  

Answer 3

Quit smoking... try to look on the brighter side of things.

Btw next time you might wanna actually ask a question....?

(there was no question there)