Ive never kissed a guy and im scared

Question

well, ive never kissed a guy, like i have pecked on the lips nothing more. and he is the guy who actually looks for a deep relationship he has only dated like 3 girls total, and they stay together a LONGG time! me and him started dating 2.5 months ago and we both think its time to actually kiss. but im really scared, he has made out with all his girlfriends; but ive never frenched kissed or made out with anyone ever before! and im so scared he is going to think im a bad kisser! im so scared, what do i do?!

how do you know your a okay kisser?

and all this.

im young, but still<-- dont tell me im to young to date, i get enough of it; but my mom and dad approves!

but seriously, ive never kissed a guy before; and im freaking out, ! he is almost 3 years older than me, but like i said my mom okayed us, going out!

Answer 1

well, i never kissed a guy before either, so i no what you mean. but i had the same probem wiv one of my mates, the only thing i can say is

even though you think your ready, if your that scared you might not be. but don&#039;t worry if is a guy you can talk to, just tell him that your not ready right now. it will happen when the time is right.

don&#039;t panic!

Answer 2

dont need to be scared

its magical

Answer 3

honestly, every girl worries about this! but when it comes to the kiss it will all come naturally, just follow his lead. when its over u will think what was i worrying about! then you can keep kissing him coz you will love it!! pucker up!

Answer 4

Relax, when the right time comes, nature will take care of itself, you will find yourself doing it without much stress, it will just come automatically just as love does.

Answer 5

Wow it&#039;s really funny that you should ask this because I&#039;ve gone through all of this in the last week. I just started dating a guy and had never kissed anyone. I was TERRIFIED of being horrible at it. Well I just waited till he kissed me and just went along with what he did. It seems to me to just be instinctual. The best advice I could give would just be to stop being afraid of it, let it happen natrually.

Have fun kissing!

Answer 6

just dont be nervous

if you really care about each other and it isnt perfect it wont even matter

Answer 7

My dear friend,

Please take a breath and relax :) I&#039;m sure he will be understanding.

If he dumps you because you&#039;re a bad kisser then I think he isn&#039;t worth it.

Answer 8

Honestly the best thing to do is just relax and go along with what he does. Kissing is not a huge deal and no one expects you to be really good at it at first. You&#039;ll get better really fast and trust me it&#039;s really hard to actually be bad at it. Like pretty much as long as you keep your lips moving and don&#039;t do something like gross then you&#039;ll be fine don&#039;t worry. Don&#039;t worry about french kissing yet that will come later when you&#039;re comfortable with normal kissing for now just sort or move your lips the way that he does and keep them moving. If he starts to use his tongue a little bit then just ignore it since you&#039;re not ready for french kissing yet, he&#039;ll get the hint. It actually does feel very natural so in like a week it won&#039;t be a scary at all. When you start to get better at it you can try maybe very gently biting his lower lip or maybe starting to introduce your tongue. But really kissing is not very hard at all. Don&#039;t be so worried about it, just have fun :) it will be a great memory later.

Answer 9

you dont have to kiss if you dont want to- i dunno like kissing

Answer 10

so don&#039;t push it. it is very awkward if you push for it to happen. as for when the time is right, just let it happen, follow his lead and don&#039;t have your hands at your side, that&#039;s the thing i can say you will really need to concentrate on. and don&#039;t be nervous. kissing is fun and there is no pressure about it. and as for how you can tell if your a good kisser, its actually near impossible to explain. you will find out what it means when you kiss more people though.