Ive only been married for a year, and i cheated.?

Question

I cheated on my husband after being married only 10 months.I dont feel bad, but i feel bad for being such a horrible person. We have s*x all the time, I dont know why i feel this way. I did love him, but now i feel trapped. HELP!! i know i was wrong, you dont have to tell me that, but i honestly might do it again if i have the chance, or meet somone i really like. i really did like the guy i cheated with but i did end it.

Answer 1

Either try marriage counseling or end it. He doesn't deserve it, and neither do you. You shouldn't feel trapped. But you have to do something about it.. and tell your husband.

Answer 2

If you are not going to stop cheating then you need to be honest with your husband. He loves you and deserves to know that you are not completely committed to the relationship and that you have cheated and may do it again.

Answer 3

sounds like you cheated when you said I do.

Answer 4

Do him a favor and get a divorce. If you know you would do it agaion in any given situation, then you need to stop lying to your husband and tell him the truth and tell him you aren't good enough for him because you're a s**t and you should give him the divorce if you are even SOMEWHAT of a decent person because he shouldn't  be wasting his time with some s**t who is going to ultimately ruin his life. If you can't stop sleeping around then DON'T GET MARRIED.

Answer 5

sounds like ur a cheater once a cheater is always a cheater, dint take it the wong way my parents cheat on each other all the time...... I'm personally not a charter or my sister but my parent are

Answer 6

How could you fall so far out of love in 10 months that you would not even have the respect to feel bad for your transgressions , you really should have told us more if you want an opinion it should be an informed one.

  So evidently you are not being neglected, you did not say if this was someone from your past that you thought was out of the picture. I really don't understand why you felt the need to do that.

  you do owe it to husband to tell him, perhaps he will understand why but this is not the kind of secret you should have in a marriage if you even want the marriage which I did not read in your question .

  I do hope that you can find happiness but don't do it at your husbands expense , he deserves the life he thinks he has, Good Luck

Answer 7

you're a lying , cheating distrustful person who ought not to be married.

Your husband deserves better so END THE MARRIAGE and let him find someone better.

there is NO excuse for being so low as to cheat on your husband or wife, none!

ridiculous. GET DIVORCED, and then get some counseling, as you def. have some issues with your behavior.

Answer 8

It's people like you that give marriage a bad record. You broke your vows and went against God. I feel awful for your husband. You don't deserve him. You need to tell him and get a divorce if you continue to cheat on him. You can't have both worlds.  

Answer 9

You have to fare to everyone involve. First of all you really do not love your husband why did you marry him so soon. You need to tell your husband the truth he needs to know. Or just get a divorce that way you can do what ever you want and not feel that you are a horrible person. Also does the guy know that you are married. If you are miserable then you must do what you have to do to be happy. I think that you are not. Once you do the right thing for everyone then you would feel different til then good luck

Answer 10

GROW UP AND BE RESPONSIBLE TO YOUR VOWS DONT THEY MEAN ANYTHING I SWEAR I DONT UNDERSTAND PPL LIKE U U CHEAT U TALK ABOUT IT THEN U WANT TO ACT AS THOUGH NO ONE SHOULD SEE U AS A HORRIBLE PERSON OF DISHONOR GEE  

Answer 11

you need to get to counseling and work on what you have, its not fair to anyone to cheat. in time it will hurt you and all the others involved.

Answer 12

it sounds like u married him just to have s*x... i mean when you marry someone you do it to spend your life with him. thats what marriage is all about. then if you say you love him why did you do it. when you love you like everything he is... he has something that no other has. and if you love him that much you would confess it to him and tell him in his face what u've done...and it is stupid to hear u say that you would do it again, then you are gonna come back to yahoo and write what u wrote again!!! U'RE not a KID  anymore!

Answer 13

Well i have been married to my husband 15 yrs and i have cheated numerous times and i dont feel bad about it cause he never wants to have s*x so why should i miss out cause of him.

Answer 14

thats really immature of you.

i advise that you tell what you did and how you feel.

i dont think your husband deserves someone like this

Answer 15

Control yourself.  Maybe seek a counselor?

Or maybe ask your husband to do a 3 some.  or a 4 some.  get more people involved.

Answer 16

I suggest for your own sake and to be fair to your husband you need to tell him- even if it is with someone else there to soften the blow.

You owe it to yourself and mostly to him to tell him the truth and then take it from there.

I suggest if you can't control yourself maybe you entered this marriage too soon and you would be better off separated until you can grow up enough to handle the responsibilities that come along with a marriage and the number one thing is to be with your husband only.