Ive posted this twice....Please help...?

Question

Hello girls Im jsut not sure what to do about someone who thinks I liek them when I dont.

They thought I was flirting with them when my behaviour was an accident.

I accidentally impressed them. Then failed whatever standards they had for me. That killed their attraction.

My question is "How do I tell her I don't liek her in a polite and not-so awkward-as possible way?"

Her name is jessica.,

I accidentally brushed agaisnt her hair. Twice. In a class where I sit directly behind her. Im in ROTC. This apaprently impressed her. I failed other expectations. I do not care for her attraction to me. I care about letting her down easy.

We are no longer attracted to each other I was never attracted to her.

How do I tell her in a way that wont seem weird that I dont like her. She doesnt seem to get my avoiding/ignoring her. So non-verbal/body language has failed to communicate my lack of attraction to her.

*****My main problem is "I know to tell her I dont like her, but how and if she has a reaction like 'Okaaaaaaaaaaay... *she walks away* How do I react?"********

Sorry for posting in Women's health but Singles and dating is filled with a bunch of rude arrogant people...

Btw we are both freshmans and 14.

Answer 1

WHAT?

Answer 2

Try to be nice to her, just simply say, 'I don't know what impressions you're getting from me it's just I'm not physically attracted to you, though I think that we could be really great friends, but that is the only relationship or contact I ever see us having, I don't know how this conversation affects you but I have to be honest, and if I am getting the wrong end of the stick then sorry lets forget we had this conversation!  But I think it is an important one!

And yeahh.. The people from the singles and dating thing are generally trying to be funny! Half of them don't know what they are on about!

Answer 3

Just tell her that you are not interested in dating right now, that you are busy with other things.  Don't sit close to her in class anymore if you can arrange that.  You don't have to tell her you don't like her, just that you are not interested in any relationship.

Answer 4

You've posted this in woman's health do you realise that? Try posting this question in singles and dating or something. You will get a better response there.

Answer 5

Oh, you're fine. Girls too often think that every little thing guys do mean that they are in to them. Just act totally normal around this girl. If you make a deal about this and go to the trouble of telling her you don't like her, then she will think that you did like her once but then got embarassed when she didnt like you back. If you just act like nothing happened she will too, and if she doesnt then maybe she does have a thing for you or something... Just don't react to this girl any more, just move on becasue if other girls notice you are concerned about this they would be like, oh hes weird, i dont want him acting weird with me. so you're fine, and you're only a freshman so you have plenty of akward situations to come.. you sound sweet, and you obviously are caring so im sure you will be fine.

good luck<33