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Question

Ok, This might now make much sense because I'm just going to throw a whole bunch of things out there. I start High School in 3 days and i had orientation today. It sucked. My "friend" marie has always been a total ***** to me and she totally ignored me and changed her whole style but its only because of me she is trying to be exactly like me and my friends and she wants more friends because she was a loser before i rescued her! she is just so annoying. anyway i registered this school 5000000 times for god sakes and they still havent made my d**n schedule. well i had to stay after for 1 hour because they were being stupid. and i had to follow my friend around and be in her classes for the day. But the think is that im not giong to have any classes with her because she is in this program that sepertes us and all of my friends are taking it im not going to have anyone in any of my classes. i feel like such a loser now. i looked so horrible today and no one talked to me. anyway my cat died today. he was such a good cat, he died from a liver disease. now im depressed and i just feel like i want to get rid of my dog because he remind me of my cat. i am just so sad and lonley i dont know what to do i have so many other things it will take too long to explane.

Answer 1

I never had that many real friends, they were all like school friends and the 1 girl that was my real friend, she was basically my best friend, has not called me all summer, we got into a fight on my birthday and when I called her she said she was not mad anymore but she has been doing other things, my birthday was on june 18 and I called her last week, so yeah I also feel depressed and I feel like I wasted my whole summer vacation just watching t.v. and going on the computer and there is A LOT more but it is toooooo much to explain

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Answer 2

I understand that you have a lot of disappointments.

But if you continue to wallow in them, you'll not only get sadder, you'll become a real mean person.

STOP lashing out at everyone that doesn't do exactly what you want them to do.  You can not control other people.

You did rescue your girlfriend, and show her how to act, so it is absolutely  expected that she will act like her only mentor = you!  In the future, if you don't want to have this situation, don't rescue anyone.

Ahhh, but then you won't get to feel the wonderful rush of helping someone out like you did for her.  Probably YOU got more out of the rescue than she did.

Actually you both benefitted.  Do it again, yes, but with a full and kind heart.

You will feel grief over the loss of your cat for a while.

I still get tears in my eyes, from a favorite pet I lost 10 years ago...but it does get easier with time.

NEVER lash out at your faithful dog because of your pain over your lost cat.  You are grieving for the cat.  Anger is part of that, but not anger-at-you-dog.

Make a scrap book of photos and things of your cat.

The last step is Acceptance.  The scrap book helps.

If you really do look horribel today, that's no big deal.  Your cat died.  It's expected.  Just try to perk up in the days to come.  And you'll look better too.

The mix up at school with your schedule is not uncommon.  Aggrivating to you YES, but not uncommon.  Accept it, and be glad when they get you straightened out.  If they don't get yours done by tomorrow...sit in the office and wait., tap your toe loudly a lot.

If you are feeling so sad and lonely, that's no one else's fault but your own.  YOU are the only person responsible for YOUR mood and demeanor.  No one is promised happiness automatically.  But I will tell you how to get happiness in a hurry.  BE a friend to someone else.

OH WOW, YA, you alread know that.  You've done it before, and you know that the results are amazing!

You become loved and popular far more than you expected.

Just keep up things that you know make you happy, and you WILL BE!!!

May YOU make all Your tommorrows happy  :)

^j^

Answer 3

i felt excacly the same when i went to secondary school and found that non of my really good friends were in my class. i was lonely as first but i began to make new friends and i really get along with and if they are still your friends then they will see you break times dinner and even after school but if they dont then there not really friends as they dont want to be with you