Jealous boyfriend? help!?

Question

My boyfriend is sooooo jealous I feel like there is no pleasing this guy.

I love him very much and am very honest with him but when Im honest and tell him things he gets mad at me and gives me attitude when all im doing is being honest. Should I just not tell him the little things? We fight so much lately over his jealousy and him not trusting me. Should I just keep all the stuff that I know wont be bad to hide from him to myself?

Answer 1

You need to lay down the law with your boyfriend.  Tell him that you trust him completely and it hurts you that this trust isn't returned.  Tell him that you are his girlfriend and therefore he should trust you and respect that, or else maybe you'll have to reconsider the relationship.  =)

Answer 2

Usually the ones who accuse the most are doing the most!

Maybe you need to start watching out for the "little things" he does not tell you!

Jealousy leads to sadness or worse.

Be careful of your decisions:

Be safe Be Sure Be Happy!

Answer 3

im going to tell you something you dont want to hear. your boyfriend is controlling you with his jealousy, if his behaivior continues you are going to stop doing the things you love to do do and stop talking to the friends he thinks are unacceptable just so you dont upset him when he hears about it from you ar someone else. i was in a relationship just like that for 5 years. i lost alot of friends, gave up a few hobbies and basically lived my life exactly how he thought i should live it. i finally left him and as hard as it was i have found myself again and am having fun in my life. i met and married a wonderful man and have a beautiful daughter. remember you are in charge of your life .

Answer 4

well the only thing that i could think of is that... if you are honest to him and he is mad at you and gives you attitude... is bcuz he isnt doing it to you .... that he is mad at himself for not telling you the truth... that he is grateful that you telll him everything.. usuallly these things honest relationship usually starts out really rocky.. but in the end you willl have a very good relationship...

Answer 5

ok let me tell u sumthin! see me and my boyfriend are having the EXACT same problem only im the one who gets upset about the little things and all that! the truth is and the reason hes probably JEALOUS or him getting mad about the "HONEST" talk bullshit is probably because you have NO idea what your talking about and put everything in a perspective to make you look like the good guy and him tha bad one! and WE feel that WE cant please you at all because theres always some problem that we didnt do right and then tha "HONEST" talk comes into play and then WE get pissed off because whatever ur bitchin about is the complete opposite of what was said or done or whatever!!!! GIVE HIM A BREAK!!!! THINK ABOUT THE S**t B4 U GO AND MAKE A BIG FUCKN DEAL ABOUT IT! and him not trusting is because of something you have done in tha past that hurt him! so b4 saying hes jealous or theres no pleasing him, its the other way around WE CANT PLEASE U!