Job Opportunity or <span title="Engagement/Fiance....HELP!?">Engagement/Fiance....HELP...</span>

Question

Im a 28y/o female who has been successful in corporate america and also obtained my Exec MBA at age 26. I had chosen to take some time off from corporate due to the murder of my mother 2 yrs ago. I have been prsented with an amazing job offer (salary wise, $500K) that req me to relocate. Im currently dating a man, 41, who owns his own high-end IT firm and wants to marry me (he wants me to work for him make $85K and build a family) and he does not support my choice to accept this job offer. BTW-he's also insecure, he thinks the CEO of this company want to get in my panties. Im scared to accept the offer because I dont want to be a woman who chases her career and miss out on a family. I know many women like that who have many regrets for choosing career over family. Please help me choose!!! Thank you

Answer 1

This is a life decision and no one can help you choose your life,    Your husband saying the CEO is trying to get in your panties, to me is childish and immature he might even be threatened by you.  I wish I knew how far away you would have to re-locate because if it is driving distance you can do both.

Since you are only 28 you need to ponder if this man is worth giving up a great career, because if you resent it in any way shape or form you will resent it your whole life.  

I would go for the job and see what happens, you might even meet someone else.

Answer 2

Don&#039;t give  up your career u worked of it hey gal u better be out of you man business have something u want in everything listen to what ur heart tells you  u know the best

Answer 3

NO! I been there. I re enlisted to be with a man who ended up cheating on me. now im going to a place that i have to stare his two timing a$$ everyday and theres nothing i could do about it. Take care of you. i got in trouble for this man, and after the dust settled, he left with some other girl while he wass with me. he was also insecure, which is a sign to me that he thinks hes too high and mighty, and can step on my poor little heart, which is exactly what he did. he trained me to comprromise with his insecurities, and now look where it has gotten me... alone, broken hearted, and hating life. PLEASE ANSWER MY Q IN ALL CAPS ABOUT KEEPING HIS STUFF.

Answer 4

Just think who you would be able to meet and marry if you had enough money to never worry about anything, and that $500k would do it.  You would never HAVE to answer to any man in your personal life, unless you absolutely wanted to. An off like this only comes around once in a lifetime.  Go for it.  You are still young.  Thirty is the new 20 now!!!  If you don&#039;t, you will spend the rest of your life resenting this man for not allowing you the opportunity of a lifetime!  If he is not around, you will be wondering what might have been, if you had taken it!  You will never be satisfied with anything less, because you could have had $500K.