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Just Curious Regarding s*x and Intimacy?

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What do you women feel about your husband having s*x with you without making love to you? Does this make you feel unloved and used? What about the men, what are your opinions on this? IF you just have s*x with your wife and are no longer making love to her what does this mean? Serious answers only please.

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Well there are times where being exceptionally intimate is exciting and can be classified as making love. But let's face it...there are times you may want to come home, grab your significant other and peel the clothes off of them on the way to the bedroom or just hit the floor (or the dining room table) and get it on.

Sometimes having s*x in an animalistic, passionate frenzy is the best things as well. If we kept it all romance and candles then we'd get bored rather quickly. Don't you agree?
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like any other relationship with s*x he's just wanting one thing and doesn't love you.
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s*x without love is rape, and then if it is happening with any woman and man they will become disgusted and such ppl r likely to flirt and go for extra marital relationship. s*x without love and satisfaction will harm anyone mentally.
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Yes it makes me feel used - happens a few times especially when he is high on alcohol. Men do not realise that for them it could mean release or pleasure or the 2 could combine with love. But for a wife (not a prostitute) she needs to feel loved to actually enjoy it. Many a times women just feel they need to be used by their husband for their pleasure. This is worst case and more often it happens wife will loose interest in either s*x or the husband.
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omg, some people just dont wanna have fun. making love is great, its an expression of love and i recommend it highly.

sometimes though it is fun to try different things in different places and just have wild crazy s*x!!!!!

anything wrong with that?
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Sometimes we get down and dirty and slap hide like a couple of capuchin monkeys. Sometimes we take it slow.

It's all about the give and take!
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It has to be love and intimacy. Any thing else one way satisfaction is rape.
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s*x without love is rape
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Irrespective of whether it is romantic or crazy...s*x without the element of love is something i hate!
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it is a h**l out there. only scorpions, snakes crawling. no human bond and parking your vehicle in the parking lot. NOT FAIR FROM ANY ONE WHO DOES THIS.I'm sure it's inhuman
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making love is boring

people dont want that all the time

people want against the wall, sweat, messy

it doesnt make you feel used

it makes you feel alive
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If this happens all the time ...hes HISTORY !!
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My husband just has s*x with me all the time...It's like wam bam thank you maam and then off to sleep he goes...It really does hurt your feelings, but what do you do. I know he loves me dearly but it's just s*x to him...I don't like it, but I've gotten use to it. I think it gets to that point after so long. I'm sure he loves you, just tell him it boters you.
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This is something couples might want to discuss before marriage, and probably don't.

As you can see from the above, a lot men and women sometimes just want s*x.  They don't want romantic lovemaking every time, sometimes they want it primal and carnal.

People like that getting married tend to believe that part of being in a relationship is having s*x as well as 'making love'.  If you don't enjoy 'having s*x' ... what exactly do you expect of your partner?  I assume you don't want them 'having s*x' with other people.  So are they supposed to never 'have s*x' because you don't enjoy it?  If that's the case, you should probably let them know before you get married!!!!
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It means he's using her as a sperm spitoon. Maybe he's just taking it for granted and got out of the habit, or maybe he has little romantic feeling for her. She should ask.
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How boring would it be to "make love" every single time?

Sometimes you just gotta get a little crazy in the bedroom!
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Once in a while my husband and I just have s*x to relieve ourselves and that's ok cuz I know he loves me and vice versa, but its so much better when we make love.
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my husband never has s*x with me we always make love :)
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It usually means that the man just is depending on his s*x drive to be satisfied and has little no regard towards how he still feels about loving his wife. It could be for a number of reasons. He could be having an affair, or not in love but feels she needs satisfaction of s*x from habit, or whatever.
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ive been married for 6 months and boy was s*x great but i need love and not once has he made love to me no intimacy or nothing he doesnt even kiss me for god sake while we are having s*x! its just s*x! i hate s*x now i need LOVE!!!!!!!!!! i feel you
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