Just be friend??? how can say ittt?

Question

2 weeks ago I broke up with my bf that I dated for 6 month, he was very sweet, but it was one hour away relationship, he always came to pick me up. Always had gift for me he was very nice, respectful always want to show me off to all his friends , but I was always busy working going to school full time it was too much. So when I broke up with him all I said was may be we should slow dawn and be friends and he was acting crazy, like o u seeing someone u are back with u ex, I wasted my time with u, u never came to see me I always came to pick u up, u played me, I did this that???? He was acting a jock and he said have a good live and he hung up on me. Didn’t talk to him for like a week so he called me a gain he said I am sorry I cant let u go blh,blh so I stat talking to him as a friend like everyday so yesterday I told him I was going to the beach with my girls for a couple of days and he start acting like crazy again u have time to go with u girls but u never came to visit me all over again so I just said I will call u later and I hung up. How can I talk to him make him understand that I am not cheating I just want to be his friend? By the way I am not attractive to him like that, I like his personality and hanging out with him but other than that not into him.

Answer 1

Yeah, this is in the wrong section.  Anyway, just be straightforward.  Tell him you like him as a friend and would like to continue to be friends.  A romantic relationship is out.  His feelings may be hurt but he probably values your friendship too.  I hope it all works out.

Answer 2

Hmm, you did post this in the wrong section, but that's ok.  For your former boyfriend, it is a good and strong thing you did in realizing that you just don't have 'those' feelings for him and you told him.  Right now, he is hurt and angry < which is another way of expressing hurt > and being just your friend is not what he wants.  The nicest thing you can do for him right now is just give him space and time.  He can't be your friend right now and trying to keep him as a friend will only cause him further pain and disappointed hopes that you might 'take him back'.  For now, let him go, let him get over you, let him heal and move on with his life. In time, maybe, and I mean maybe, he will be able to be your friend.  But not now.  

I hope this helps,

Good luck

Answer 3

you put this under cancer.....I don't think you're boy problems relate to cancer at all.

Answer 4

be persistant! keep telling him that your only friends.  and  when you ger back form the beach go give him a visit if it will mkae him happy.   and talk to him face to face.. its always more affective.

Answer 5

i guess u posted in the wrong section...