Just confused...........?

Question

I am quite in a dilemma here...

Keep hearing this saying that "biar kita pijak kepala orang... jangan orang pijak kepala kita"....

But then.....

I always believe in peace-making.... and I still do...

Just that... peace-making is not really effective sometimes... so what should I do next.... be mean? and try pijak-pijak? hmmmm.... is there another peaceful resort?

Just that I've seen enough... and... had enough....

*Just confused*

Answer 1

make love, not war

Answer 2

I think what it means is, if you have a strong and valid opinion about something, do not let others tempered with it.

What's in your mind is your right. If other people persuade or forced you to change your point of view and you disagree with it but you unwillingly accept it, that's when "orang pijak kepala you".

So, that is why they said, "biar kita pijak kepala orang... jangan orang pijak kepala kita"....

Answer 3

That's life and there are no way to avoid it even be your own boss.

You just have to learn how to live with it.

Good luck.

Answer 4

If people like to pijak your kepala, then make sure you give them tahi so that they will pijak tahi instead. As for yourself, if you don't like to pijak kepala orang, then don't. You don't have to be like the people you dislike to be a better person. Just believe in yourself and your principles.  

Answer 5

Next time, when you hear someone said like that, you already get the answer......that person is not your friend. Because he/she will betray you one day.

You can try to influence them but do you have the time? Just too many these kind of useless people in this world.

Answer 6

Well, that makes 2 of us, because I am also confused..

Answer 7

the truth is, biar kepala dipijak orang, jangan dipijak gajah.. pedih!!

Answer 8

just follow this easy rule

'don't pijak-pijak orang and don't let others pijak-pijak you'

Answer 9

the more we know we know, the more we know we know, we do not know..