Just friends? Or more?

Question

Well I've been talking to this guy for about four months. He's in one of my classes. Any time I see him we talk, sometimes over myspace. Then, he finally got a cell and asked for my number so we could text.

The thing is, is that he has a gf. I don't want him to cheat on her, and I think that he likes me. Ya know, like he acts like he does.

Well I'm not sure if he knows that I really like him....

So my question is, what should I do?

Forget about him? It would be really hard.

Be up front? Just tell him how I fell? But how?

Stay the same?

Answer 1

Well, knowing he has a girlfriend, I wouldnt just come out directly and tell him you like him.  You may wait a while to see if him and his girl ever break up to tell him how you feel, or if enough time has passed, try hinting to him more that you like him.

Answer 2

You don't want to get involved with somebody who has a girlfriend already.She liable to find out and want to beat you up and all kinds of drama will ensue.If ya were to get together you would have to wonder if he was to cheat on you  too.He should be broken up with her before ya get together,its safer that way unless she's a jealous vindictive type. You have to decide if it's worth it considering i don't know all the facts.

Answer 3

Nope! I don't think you should say something. With him having a girlfriend, you should back off. If you don't, and even w/ the slim chance you guys really got together, you'd always wonder if he'd do the same to you. I know girls that have "stolen guys" and then can't even enjoy the "relationship" because they are insecure, wondering if their bf will move on to the next the same way.

Just keep talking to him and being friends...but don't make the move. You don't know if he really likes you. He could just be that type of guy that really likes attention from other girls. He could just be really flirty and likes the attention he gets from you. Some guys just like being liked...actually there are some girls who like to lead people on too!

So...just be friends if you can handle it...if you are just sitting there waiting for him to break up w/ his gf, or for him to make the move, or for you to have that brave moment...move on. you shouldn't be using that much energy on someone who is already taken!