Just need your opinion please?

Question

so i'm 18, almost 19 and have never been kissed... like i have pecked a guy on the lips but have never made out or done anything with guys...

is this bad? i feel like when the time comes i wont know what to do?

Answer 1

Don't feel bad, I was 26, not for lack of opportunity.  I was looking for something special not someone with garlic breath, or a non-committal  make out session.

The person I first kissed did not know that he was my first and I didn't tell him, not for almost a month after.  So don't worry about it.  Worry about treating yourself with respect when it comes to your relationships instead.  That stuff will all come when the time is right.  

Answer 2

It's fine, seriously. There are LOADS  of people in that same boat.

Don't worry 'bout it. It's all good!

Answer 3

When its right, you will know.

Answer 4

Just relax its just a kiss and its no big deal that you havent had your first kiss yet. Besides the first kiss is nothin special unless its happens on like a big holiday. Im 15 and ive olny kissed one guys never anything else. It will just happen you dont need experiance for it to happen  

Answer 5

It's not bad at all.  It doesn't make you any different from anyone else.  Guys aren't going to mind, when the right one comes along I'm sure he'll be understanding. =P  Really though, there's nothing wrong with it.  If you didn't tell the first guy you kissed beforehand then he probably would never guess!  Good luck! =]

Answer 6

save it tell you meet the lucky person who does deserve your first kiss,

Answer 7

This will come naturally. Don't worry. You are not the first person in the world to have a "first kiss". It will be fine.  

Answer 8

i agree with the person above me,

and also boys seem to like a girl that's considered "pure"

so dont worry!!

take your time and it'll come when you least expect it..

Answer 9

Don't worry at all when it happens.. it'll just come naturally. And technically, that does count as your first kiss.

Answer 10

its not bad if you haven't been kissed. it will come sooner or later. don't worry.

Answer 11

i think that's good. Wait until you get married to have your first kiss, that way when you know you're with the one you love most, it will be a pure kiss, and you know you saved it just for him.

Answer 12

Trust me your first kiss will come unexpected

when you're not looking it will just come

i know from experience

Answer 13

that's nothing to be ashamed of! be nice to yourself! there's nothing wrong with you, it's just that the opportunity hasn't happened yet! but it will come, no worries. new things come into your life when you are least expecting them. just hang in there and be nice to yourself, and make sure your first real kiss is with someone kind and gentle and likes you for YOU and isn't s*x-driven. i promise, everything is okay, and it's just that the opportunity hasn't come yet :)

Answer 14

relaxe! the kiss wont be pure if its just for having a kiss. Look for a gf/bf and make sure you are into them. Then once u guys know each other, try for the kiss. You can start for a peck if you want but dont worry about not knowing, when it comes you'll do your personal best.