Just opinions not brutal answers PS this is kinda long?

Question

ok so I've been with this guy for almost a year but we only dated for 5 months, he was dancing and making out with a chick at some party and we broke up, i forgave him, right now hes going through basic training for the army, i go in september, but we plan on getting back together when i get back in april. well since we broke up, i moved in with my best friend it didnt work out and he asked me to live with him, so i did, and well he stopped partying and seemed to change then today i found a photobucket login and it was the girls he cheated on me with, there were pictures of him and her just like friends and one picture of her taking a pic of him taking a p**s. anyways, i trust him a lot i let him hang out with her for that day and i know he really didnt do anything. well im totally in love with this guy and all his friends say he is with me to, and before this guy left he was talking about marraige and stuff well i dont know, i just feel weird about that girl and was wondering if it would be wrog of me to ask him to not talk to her anymore. thats all

Answer 1

Hon...I don't know what is right or wrong for you.  I personally would not be with this person but I cannot speak for you or your situation.  I think you need to look inside yourself and be true to that person.  If you feel like it's wrong for him to talk to her then talk to him about it.  I wouldn't let my guy talk to a girl he slept with while he was with me.  I wouldn't be talking to HIM either.

Just my opinion

Answer 2

Nope I think it is perfectly fine to ask him not to see her.  If they have history together and he betrayed you once already with her.. I think that would be acceptable.

Answer 3

How can you trust him enough to let him go out with the girl he cheated with? That's a big no no!  What makes you think he wont do it again? People that had a relationship in the past always feel something for each other. Even if it was just "making out"

Personally, I wouldn't allow him, period! The reason is quite simple.

Answer 4

I would def say No it would not be wrong to ask such a little thing from him. When you to are away from each other for long periods of time TRUST is all you have. If you feel like this girl is a problem, you should really communicate with him. My fiance left to the army and it brought us so much closer. I think because the communication was so great. Our letters to each other poor our hearts out and we cherished every phone call, every moment! He is now in Afghanistan  and we are back to it again. We both know basic is not an easy task and you need your close ones and family by at all times for the mental support that the army breaks of you! If you love him as much, forgiveness is everything GOD asks from us and loving ourselves and others is a beautiful thing. You both seem to be on the right track in life, I really don't see why he wouldn't understand you asking so little of him, so that you to can start to build you feature and foundation together!

Answer 5

Why don't you ask this in the SINGLES AND DATING section where it belongs.  Sorry sweetheart but DATING a guy for almost a year isn't the same as being married.