Just out of curiosity..?

Question

this isnt meant to offend anyone at all! please dont take it like that. i was just curious about this, and trying to understand it a little better.

do g*y males, wish that they were females? or do they feel that they are females trapped in a males body? im asking because most of the g*y males, are big into fashion, and looking great!

Answer 1

No, we don't feel we're trapped in a female body or wish we were females; those that do are trans-gender.

The bi/g*y guys I know prefer guys because we are guys with the equipment they prefer and they don't see themselves as females acting the role, but guys with equipment that want the same as the other g*y guy.

The majority of g*y males don't look or dress any different than straight guys, you wouldn't be able to tell us apart by our looks or actions. The ones that are 'fashionable' and 'great looking' want to stand out in a crowd. They may be exhibitionists, cruising for a male date, making a statement defending their right to be g*y (as in the g*y Parades), etc.

Answer 2

No, I don't wish to be female at all. I envy the girls who can get the cute nice guys. But when I fantasize about it, I always picture myself as who I am right now. A guy.

And about the fashion? I guess it's because g*y guys required much more effort to attract other guys because there are so little of us in this world afterall. And with all those practices to attract others for years, we eventually become good at it.

Answer 3

Not all g*y men are very fem.  It just depends on the person and what they are into.

Answer 4

No, most g*y men like being male. If they preferred to be female, that is not being g*y - it's something called transgender/transsexual.

That said, a penchant for fashion, shopping, gossip and things like that are more common among g*y men than among straight men (but not every g*y man is like this - I really don't like any of those things). But it doesn't mean that those g*y men want to actually be women.

Answer 5

No. I wouldn't want to be a woman. Fortunately i do not have periods and would not give that up. Yes I am into fashion though. I don't know why that is. I'm just picky. I guess some g*y guys do wish they were women. But I'm i guy i like being a guy and i like guys. no i don't act phemonine.

Answer 6

no. gender and sexual orientation are two very different things.  

Answer 7

they do not.  if so, they are trandssgendered.

and im bi and female...no thought of being a man or anything...eww lol.id feel weird being a guy.

Answer 8

No. In fact most I know HATE being called "one of the girls" more than about anything. Gayness does not equal less masculine despite the rumors.

Some guys and girls DO desire to be the other gender, g*y, straight, bi, transgender or not (I personally am bi and I dragking some and, though I love being a woman, I would be equally happy being a man--if born that way). But yeah, even crossdressers don't necessarily have that wish. Sometimes it's just fun to play with different gender roles. ^_^  

Answer 9

there R many variations so that U can't generalize ! I am a bi male who likes 2 role-play as a female but have no desire 4 surgical alterations or hormones !

Answer 10

Not at all. I have never wanted to be female, nor do I feel a connection to females.

I have almost all male friends, very few female friends. I love being a guy, I'm masculine, work out, keep my body fit and trim. (and hairy, ha ha, hate to shave) I'm not even really attracted to fem guys.

Answer 11

I like being male but i dont act femme; its just how most g*y men are some just act femme i dont know if they want to be female are not. But i have femme friend and he is very jealous if someone has a better clothes and other things and he worrys about his looks alot i guess thats just his personality

Answer 12

I believe transgenders want to be female and wish they were born female. Some homosexuals tend to act more feminine than heterosexual males...but I don't believe that they wish they were female.  

Answer 13

no they don't think that.  Most g*y guys don't like women and call us fish and stuff.  They love ding a ling.  They don't wish they had a t**t.  For the ones that wish they were women that is something totally different.  That is some type of gender disorder that they have to be diagnosed with.

Answer 14

I would fall more on the feminine side than masculine. But I don't want to be a female - never really have. I like my male body.

I believe you are thinking of transgendered people (who are also a part of our community).

Answer 15

I like being male and I like having a p***s, thanks :D

Answer 16

no i think that men who wish they were female are called transgendered. There are many stereotype's that come along with being g*y, like that all lesbians look like men...its just that stereotype's. g*y people come in all different shapes sizes and colors. We don't fit into a mold so please do not put us in one. Its like assuming that all straight women want to be barefoot and pregnant and that all straight men want young blond wife's with big b***s.....just stererotypes.