Just told my mom that i was pregnant. im fifteen. what can i expect now?

Question

she ran into the bathroom crying...then i came out to the computer to get on myspace and tell my boyfriend i just did it. (his parents already know). and when i sit down at the comp, i see she had just posted a question on yahoo answers sayin she thought i was pregnant!

Answer 1

when ur mum has calmed down sit down and have a 'grown up' convosation with her and discuss what you r going to do and what will happen now,it will take her a while to get used to it

Answer 2

she will ask you weather you plan to keep it or not. its a massive shock for her as well give her some time. She will be fine she is your mum she will always love you. do the right thing for the baby. Good luck.

i just went and read what your mum had wrote and what you wrote to her. You sound really sweet. and you know what. you will be fine. it sounds stupid now but when you see your baby you feel that it was the best thing that ever happened to you. if you want to talk feel free to contact me. I am 23 and my son has just turned one. i am much older then you but my mum still had kittens when she found out. Good Luck

Answer 3

As much as I would like to answer that question I cant , and I don't think anyone else but your mum can... nobody on here knows how she is feeling or what she is going to do. Judging by the question that she asked though she obviously cares about you very much. Hopefully she supports you. Good luck!

Answer 4

just talk to her...............

Answer 5

Just give it some time and she will come around.    You have to understand that this is a shock to her and she probably does not know what to do either.    Just be yourself and let her know that she will be a wonderful grandma and you really want her in your life.   I think she will calm down and start to except the fact that you are pregnant.   Don't rush her.    Just be the best mommy that you can be and she will see that you are and you both will be very close because of the baby.    There is always good that follows bad.   Good luck.

Answer 6

If you don't ask for support, then it's going to be very awkward and you can end up being homeless. Get your feelings out. Have her help you decide (along with your bf) if you want to raise the baby or give it up for adoption. You need a major support system because pregnancy is a big deal. Good luck.

Answer 7

Talk to her.

And good luck to you.

Answer 8

She JUST asked that question within the last hour. You should read it to see how she feels. She's scared for you.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 9

She is probably in shock and doesn't know what to do.  This also gives her feelings that she wasn't ready to have.  This throws her into the grandmother phase of life.  Sit and talk to her, let her know how sorry you are for the mistake that you made, but that she raised you to take care of your responsibilities and that you are going to do it.  Let her know that because of her great parenting skills that you will also be a great mom.  Mothers tend to wonder what they did wrong when their children make mistakes.  Let her know that it wasn't her fault.

Answer 10

You can expect to be asked what you plan on doing...You need to think your options over and decide which works best for you. Adoption, Abortion, or keep your child.  (please, if you have the slightest discomfort feeling of abortion, choose something else.) You are going to need your mother more then ever right now...and you have to remember, this is a shock for her, so she may need some time. Make sure you start eating well and take prenatals. You can get them at any store basically.  Good luck hun