Just try to understand..as much as possible and knw how i feel !!?

Question

i had this friend as one of my closest freinds for like 3 or 4 years ......she was the only one i could tell her all about me without being afraid i trusted her so much....but i always seen her complicated,depressed........anyways she was my freind and i never leave my friends then she fell in love with a guy in our school i was so happy for her ....i didnt like the guy so much neither did he!! but alll i cared for was tht she was happy . after that i had a huge fight with one of her guy's friend reallllllly BIG !! and we just agreed that no1 talks to the other ....she always came to me crying b.cause of what her bf was doing to her i told her she just gotta dump him but she told me i cant i love him....she was patient with him!!! I dont wanna make this long but at the end she choosed hanging out with her bf and her bf friends than hanging out with me and we ve become so far away from each other even though we were more than sisters be4!!.....i hated her soooo much for thatt cause she knew i hated her bf and HIS FRIENDS !!!!!!!!!!!!!! but since she was in the same class with me i had to act like i still love her and i dont careee but whenever she tries to get closer again like we have been be4 i always step awayy i dont wanna make the same mistake ........ i just loved her soo much i knw that it was totally in her hands to choose whom to be with i mean if was in her place i may have choosen being with my bf!!! but i was hurted and when am hurted it takes 4ever for me to get back to my normal like.........NOW SHE JUST WANNA BE BEST FRIENDS AGAIN AND SHE ASKS ME y do i always get away ..should i tell her the truth that i hate her sooooooooooooooooooooo much now !! or it doesnt matter anymore cause i have moved to a new school and so did she and we might never meet again ???????!! what do u think ????and am sorry i made it soo long i was just trying to show how ifeel ....THANKS!

Answer 1

you should just tell her how you feel.

and don't hold back or sugar coat things.

your not going to see her anymore.

it is better to tell her that to bottle things up.

Answer 2

FRIENDSHIP IS GOLDEN!!!! EVIDENTLY YOU ARE SILVER!!!!

Answer 3

In my opinion, you should never put all your trust in one person and be 'best friends' with them. Especially people like this. Just be friends with her. Best friends, I'm not sure.  

Answer 4

Oh i had a similar experience where a good friend chose their other friends over me. But i think you should tell her get it off your chest. it would feel way good. Even though you guys are going to different schools i think you should tell her.

What do you feel good about doing?

Answer 5

I think you should just tell her how you feel. Maybe things would go back like how they used to even though you'll don't go to the same school anymore.

Answer 6

i think u shud tell her even though yall dont go to da same skool. let her know how bad it made u feel when she wuz acting shady towards u. maybe she mite actually think about hw wrong she wuz and apologizes. maybe yall mite become bff again  

Answer 7

you gotta talk to her and tell her that it hurt your feelings alot, and why it did. but dont throw away your friendship! you will really regret it later if you do! if youve been good friends for so long, dont let this come between you. maybe she has to earn your trust back, but she can do that, just talk to her!