Just weird dreams or maybe something more????

Question

Ever since my best friend became my boyfriend I have had some weird dreams. Not all the time, but definitely a lot. The dreams mostly include his ex-girl doing him, her with him or her just in my dream in general. Sometimes i am there, sometimes im not. One of the dreams I definitely remember him choosing her over me and I woke up really upset because it felt sooo real. I have never ever told him I have had these dreams because he probably would think that I am overeacting. The girl use to be a friend of mine in school but we had a HUGE fight because of what she did.I know longer have a grudge against this girl for I don't care for her and wish her the best in anything, but I do have a fear of him going back to her or even talking to her. He says he can't stand her and wants nothing to do with her and doesn't talk to her. I am a really understanding girl but I don't think I am going to be that forgiving if he's lying to me.

Answer 1

You pretty much answered your own question... Insecurity over him leaving you for her will come up in your dreams.  You have to figure out if you can trust him and just let go of the worries.  You will in time stop having the dreams.  Your subconsious does strange things to you!  You have to not worry about her, think positive thoughts about you and him.  You are right in not saying anything to him though.  He would probably think you are too clingy and that pushes guys away.  Another thing is you can "make up" with the girl.  Just say something about how a guy should not come between gal pals and that you really want to be friendly, and not worry all the time about being mad...

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Answer 2

maybe its cuz ur afraid hes gonna be wif her

Answer 3

It is a fear that you have. You are very insecure.

Answer 4

i guess you are just stressed out.