Just wondering what do you all think?

Question

What all your views are on this.

So my fiance is in Florida for a while and I'm home in Vermont. I'm going through some pretty rough times right now with my grandma has lung cancer, my aunt has breast cancer, and my dad is in poor health due to a heart condition. My fiance tells me "Baby if you need me anytime while I'm gone you can call." Well its around 3:30am and I had got off the phone with her around 1:00am cause ive just been pretty down so we were talking. She tells me. "Baby don't worry about waking me up if you need to talk, you know I wont mind." so well back to 3:30... I'm still awake... can't sleep. To many things on my mind.... So I decide to call her cause for some reason she makes everything feel alright and I Love that. I figure she will be able to help me get some sleep. But before I call I figure I will txt her and ask if she minds instead of making her pick up a phone and fake it if she does. I txt."Hey Baby, I can't sleep. Can we talk for a few mins?" The response I get is a "No". WTF?! I mean yeah I will get over it easy... I mean I'm marrying her... This isn't going to mess that up. I don't really have a problem with it. See ever since we met she always has this thing that if shes not sleeping well and you wake her up shes kinda not in her own mind but kinda 4/5 asleep and she will act a little hostile. Well when were together I usually just wake her up with a kiss and the whole hostile bad sleep act thingy doesn't happen. (it only ever happend when it would be a phone call). Anywho I'm fine and I get it. She will probably wake up in the morning read the texts call me and say shes sorry and that she cant believe she did that and I know its sincere. Anywho was just wondering what yall think about her saying "No" after having told me all that. Kinda forget about the whole thing i told you about her doing that hostile act thing. .........Btw this is me being bored... I usually answer questions... Not ask.

Answer 1

she not like you **** her

Answer 2

Lol yeah like you, im sure everything will be just fine. She seems like  a really nice girlfriend to have, and i dont think she would say "no" if she was fully awake. So don't worry it'll all be fine :). I can't sleep either though! lol

Answer 3

She probably said no cause you guys had just talked two hours earlier.  You need to try and be a bit stronger...you dont want to turn or off or scare her off by being so dependant on her for support.  Back off a bit and you'll be suprised at how she comes to you and calls you.  ****some people are just sleepy-time grumps.  Not much you can do to change that.***

Answer 4

That No wasn't genuwine ok, it happens ,sleep can be crunky at times i can tell 100% of who answers phone calls while in sleep,they don't mean what they say for real.this happens to me too, i text call gals and in the mornin' when am asked wat i meant...! i can't even believe it was me that made that text call you know.

So really didn't mean it not that i know her well bt this is an experience we all go through at times people even are stressed alittle and say things that they regret later...

Your Gal is in the ok state and you too ok. Nothing to worry about