Keep saying stupid things and hating myself for it.?

Question

Usually im a very happy outgoing person but in this past year i've lost all confidence in myself. im constantly worrying about what others think of me and i worry that people hate me. its affecting me and making me say stupid and do stupid things which in the end sees me hating myself for what i said so much i want to yell at myself. whats going on. im 15 and im not depressed or bipolar but i think maybe i have an anxiety problem which i dont want to see a counsoler for. i've told my parents and they just tell me not to worry.

any help?

Answer 1

I hav a different situation, but mi parents say the same thing and sumtimes i get like, scuicidal cause it makes me tink they dont really care.. Try to find some way 2 talk 2 sum1 who knows more about this kinda stuf and knows that ther really is sumthing 2 worry about. That way u will hav a higher self esteem and kno that sum1 gets what ur going at and they might help solve it 2.

Answer 2

ya i knw your answer talk to a psychologist we all problems everyone is different problem take a anti anxiety med ATIVAN IT WILL HELPand you have to help yoruself dont just depend on med try both you can do it just step up and STOP yourself from doing it keep busy and have fun girl!

Answer 3

You are growing up.  As you get older you are worrying more about what people say or think because you care more about yourself.  I'm a guy and I can remember hitting 15 on up.  I was worried about my hair, my clothes, my face, etc... Drove myself crazy.  Did all that work to myself and did it change the way people saw me?  Nope.   I was still the same person inside.  I was a nerd, geek, or whatever you call it.  The clothes didn't change it, combing my hair different didn't change it.  Growing up and getting through my teens (man they were rough) changed it though. I realized that I am who I am and those that don't like it tough.  Being me and being myself is what people like in me.  They don't buy my clothes and they really don't care what I wear.  Icut my hair really short and you know what?  No one cares.   I am still me !!! People like me for me !!!!  Not who I'm was trying to be.  Think before you speak.  Ask your self, will this sound stupid if I say it?  If you do say something dumb, don't say it again.  I'm in my 40's and married.  You don't think I say stupid things every once in a while and get in trouble with my wife.  I have a 13 yrold son, everything I say to him is stupid or dumb. That's what teenagers think.  You are OK.  Wait till you get a little older and one day you say something stupid and it doesn't even bother you.  You look back and tell your self, "I worried over nothing." Good Luck