Kid who's g*y what do I do?

Question

My friend just told me today that he was g*y. He said I was the first person he'd ever told in his LIFE! We are only 13 years old, and I think he is sure about it. He wants to tell his parents, but he doesn't know how? can someone help me out?

Answer 1

support him. Don't act all wierd about it. Act like it's a normal thing (which it is).

Answer 2

well if hes not to shy...it would be like *dad* u got any girrrrlfriends yet??? and he would be like no...but i got a BOYFRIEND! =D otherwise just be casual about it...whenever something like "girlfriend" or "date" comes up

Answer 3

support him, and let him talk to his parents alone.

Answer 4

It all depends on the parents and how they react if they are strict unacceptable hardcore-Bible parents then just tell him to not come out of the closet until he is at least 16, but if they are just the opposite then tell him to come out.

Answer 5

What do you need to do.. This is his decision and nothing you can do will matter... Just remain his friend; and atleast be comforted by the fact that he consoled in you.  

Answer 6

I agree, stick with him as a friend

Answer 7

Oh boy... I can't say I know from experience. But tips for YOU is to know hes still the same person, still your friend, and hasn't changed. As for him and his parents, if he feels its the right time for him to say something then he will. Just my $.02

Answer 8

You should support your friend, it took a lot for him to tell you that. Also, he is going to get a lot of **** from people while he is still so young...so having you stick up for him will make a world of difference.

I am not g*y, and I am not a boy. However, I do have many g*y friends. I personally would not recommend him telling his parents now..they are probably going to say that he does not know anything that he is only a child. If he feels it is necessary, he should sit them down and explain his feelings. Hope to god they understand... it is more widely accepted than it used to be. Good luck to you and your friend.

Answer 9

Tell him to check with a g*y/L*****n support group in his area.  They can help him out with the coming out to the parents thing.

This isn't something a couple of 13 year olds should be trying to work out together.

Answer 10

Just be there to support him, there's nothing you can really do.

Answer 11

He should tell his parents, they'll take him to church and he'll get prayed over and hopefully.. he will realize that being g*y is a sin ( if he's a christian )

Answer 12

i have g*y friends. it makes me a bit more confident in my masculinity to know that im not afraid of them.

there are, however, some g*y people that will hit on anything that has a d**k and 2 legs.

you stay away from those.

some actually have restraint. all my friends ive talked to, and i suggest you do the same.

if it might become a big deal or it makes you uncomfortable, then just say

"hey. i dont really care what your sexual orientation is/what team you play for, just dont involve me in it."

works for me.

and this kind of thing isnt only for g*y people.

"i dont care if you shoplift, i dont want to be seen with you when you do it"

and if they respect it, they respect you, and youve got yourself a friend.

if they dont respect that, then they generally dont give a d**n what you think, and youve got yourself some crappy friends.

Answer 13

use this information to your advantage like a good zombie would

Answer 14

If he's your friend stand by him. I'm not saying you have to agree with what he is, but don't abandon him just because he's g*y, he's the same person you knew before.

Answer 15

the way i see it you got 2 choices...

1) keep being his friend as long as he knows his boundaries and respects you.

2) F him and tell him to stay away from you.

doing choice 1 my mess up your reputation..

Answer 16

just support him and stand by his side if it goes bad or if it goes good. just be a friend

Answer 17

tell him not to tell his parents stright away without him being completely sure

you should jus be normal about it he is you friend after all dont you wanna suport him???

Answer 18

OH MY GOD. Well, be supportive that he might think you're hott...

But tell him to tell his parents only if he wants to.

I'm 13, and my parents would be cool if I were a L*****n... I never would be, but whatever..

Yeah. Tell him that you're still his friend, and be kind.